Leftists love to redefine terms and labels to fit their narratives and manipulate casual consumers of discourse.
It's sounds like you reject their terms outright. My strategy is to stop placing any weight or power behind those labels. For example - if they want to say as a parent standing up against groomers and race baiters makes me a "domestic terrorist" then sign me the **** up.
By their new labels my highschooler (who is black) is quite the white supremest, because he's a huge proponent of self reliance, capitalism and other traditional western values.