texag2016 - if this is your first game of this type, then the best advice i can give you is to not be afraid to just do stuff. idk what you normally play but compared to FPS's or even most other RPG's, elder scrolls games give you a huuuuge amount of freedom.
as an example, i've logged nearly 40 hours of play time while barely making a dent in the "main" mission - because there are new quests around every corner. you'll frequently happen upon little towns or dungeons with opportunities for adventure, looting, and questing that have absolutely no bearing on the main storyline - and yet, they fit into the world fantastically, because the entire setting is fleshed out. and they're just plain fun!
have fun man, and remember to take breaks every once in a while - this game can eat away your time without you even realizing it