cbr said:
Chuck Cunningham said:
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what distinguishes love/altruism from self fulfillment is a valid question
It's been argued many times, and I agree with it, is there really are no such things as pure altruism. Those give or do because of how it makes them feel.
i disagree, but there obviously is a kernel of truth.
i still think the unselfish thing to do is stay alive an help, rather than 'here's a letter to someone'
that said, i hope i never have to find out which choice i would make.
If you're choosing to stay alive to help others, you're doing it to satisfy your own sensibilities, your own conscience.
Everything we do is selfish, which is to say we do it for our own reasons, for whatever benefit we perceive.
There's a difference between stupid selfishness and smart selfishness, of course.
I've always found some negative attitudes toward suicide to be as selfish as such attitudes can get. Can't imagine being more selfish than wanting someone else to stay alive and suffer so that *you* don't feel bad. (Not talking about your post, speaking in general terms here. Rambling, in fact.)