VP at Pierce and Pierce said:
Hardcore Greg said:
VP at Pierce and Pierce said:
Where was the husband during her breakdown? She said she needed help and the medical professionals failed her but where was the husband in all of this? Seems like he either didn't know or didn't take her cry for help seriously. And the optics of him don't look good, he rebounded with a new chick 3 months later…
Seems like a sad sad deal all around. And seemed preventable too.
In premeditated fashion, didn't she send her husband away on errands literally so she could murder her children? Or are you blaming him for not curing her mental illness?
Also, F the "optics" when your wife went psychotic and murdered your three beloved children. He is probably looking to fill several large emotional voids in his life right now. Can you see how someone would want to maybe ditch that old horrific reality in search of a better life and a new start? I cannot even begin to fathom what he has gone through and will continue to go through for the rest of his life.
He is literally the ultimate victim. And it's crazy that millions of wannabe victims and wacked out conspiracy theorists who have never endurd any hardship in their delicate little lives are villainizing him because he hasn't handled things extactly the way they wanted him to.
I hear you. Do we know the timeline of how long she was struggling? That's what I mean by "where was the husband?" If this went on for months seems like the he and want to take action. Either he didn't notice, didn't know what to do, or she was acting fine around him or not struggling for long. It's so hard to wade through.
I found the medicine list, not the heavy meds I was expecting. I didn't see mood stabilizers or things like that. Lots of rehab style medicine then a heavy dose of Valium which was questionable. I only saw two doses of SSRIs. Really looks like she snapped
I have had two buddies whose wives have gone through serious prolonged psychotic episodes...we can cast blame on the husband from afar, but I will tell you that I would not wish that level of hell and stress on any man.
He works in the tech sector, what does he know about helping his batsh** crazy wife? That's what her doctors were for, and they wrote her like 15 different medications. Are we really expecting this level of responsibility from men? How about women if their husband loses his marbles? Do we say "where was the wife" when he is secretly planning to kill the whole family?
Honestly, just having one child, let alone three, is enough to eat up all emotional bandwidth when you also have a job. Feels like we're asking this poor man to be superhuman in hindsight. I am sure if he knew that she was actually a threat to murder his children, or was planning to do so, he may have taken some action.