Ah, gotcha.
I think it's perfectly okay to feel a general sense of embarrassment that racism played such a huge role in the forging of our country (slavery, civil rights, etc.), and I think it's perfectly okay for a black person to want us, as a country, to feel embarrassed. But am I *personally* embarrassed for *my* actions, and do I feel a responsibility for the actions of white men prior to my existence? No, of course not, and I don't think that's what King is getting at. I don't think she's saying that I, as a white man, should feel guilt for the past actions of my gender/race. Embarrassment and guilt are two different things. I think it's more of a general "We should all feel embarrassed as a country and learn from our past" kind of thing.
I think it's perfectly okay to feel a general sense of embarrassment that racism played such a huge role in the forging of our country (slavery, civil rights, etc.), and I think it's perfectly okay for a black person to want us, as a country, to feel embarrassed. But am I *personally* embarrassed for *my* actions, and do I feel a responsibility for the actions of white men prior to my existence? No, of course not, and I don't think that's what King is getting at. I don't think she's saying that I, as a white man, should feel guilt for the past actions of my gender/race. Embarrassment and guilt are two different things. I think it's more of a general "We should all feel embarrassed as a country and learn from our past" kind of thing.