Why is dating after 35 such a beating?

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Duncan Idaho said:

Pirate04 said:

The men on this board are the reason I will choose to stay single no matter how much y'all shame me for being a never married, no kids, and over 35 female. Well done ****tards.

I thought you were a lesbian? Or am I mixing you with someone else?
Unless Pirate has made some significant lifestyle changes that she hasn't share with us, pretty sure you're thinking of another poster.
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ea1060 said:

Then they tend to self-medicate themselves with wine, zanax, and cats.
Straight to the point!
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Tex117 said:

Be attractive. Don't be unattractive.

Then its never a problem at any age really.

Because looks are the ONLY thing that matters in dating and marriage. THANK GOD FOR THIS THREAD OR ELSE I WOULD HAVE NEVER KNOWN.
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713nervy said:

Tex117 said:

Be attractive. Don't be unattractive.

Then its never a problem at any age really.

Because looks are the ONLY thing that matters in dating and marriage. THANK GOD FOR THIS THREAD OR ELSE I WOULD HAVE NEVER KNOWN.
A really cool 6 is way better than an airhead 10.
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713nervy said:

Tex117 said:

Be attractive. Don't be unattractive.

Then its never a problem at any age really.

Because looks are the ONLY thing that matters in dating and marriage. THANK GOD FOR THIS THREAD OR ELSE I WOULD HAVE NEVER KNOWN.

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EFE said:

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Best GB thread in a while. Enjoy the lonely, miserable life ladies.
Look at what the cat threw up!


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Eliminatus said:

Plus trying to find a woman with no kids by this age is hard in most urban areas. Not saying kids are a deal breaker, but also, they kinda are for most. Even if they won't admit it.

For every woman with a kid, there too exists a man with a kid who probably didn't step up to take on 50/50 custody of his own child and therefore the woman is left to raise the child AND support her household while Weekend Dad gets to do whatever the hell he wants. So maybe reconsider the single woman who has a child bc she is probably a pretty capable badass and a victim of circumstance to the man who dumped his responsibility onto somebody else (her).
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I just want to know where all of these super hot, wealthy, tall, emotionally available men in their thirties were when I was in my twenties.
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Or find a younger woman without kids
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Pirate04 said:

The men on this board are the reason I will choose to stay single no matter how much y'all shame me for being a never married, no kids, and over 35 female. Well done ****tards.


You're still a woman of my desire, Pirate.
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i love this thread.
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Its a shame men start suffering from erectile dysfunction around the age yall are suggesting us spinsters start shooting for.
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713nervy said:

Eliminatus said:

Plus trying to find a woman with no kids by this age is hard in most urban areas. Not saying kids are a deal breaker, but also, they kinda are for most. Even if they won't admit it.

For every woman with a kid, there too exists a man with a kid who probably didn't step up to take on 50/50 custody of his own child and therefore the woman is left to raise the child AND support her household while Weekend Dad gets to do whatever the hell he wants. So maybe reconsider the single woman who has a child bc she is probably a pretty capable badass and a victim of circumstance to the man who dumped his responsibility onto somebody else (her).
Just saying it is a consideration for many men. And also women too btw. A lot won't even bother digging into the circumstances.

Not sure if I touched a nerve (heh) or if I am reading too much into that.
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chiken said:

Its a shame men start suffering from erectile dysfunction around the age yall are suggesting us spinsters start shooting for.
We have quite the range of medicinal help for that though. Some would even say its a boost over the norm. At least initially.
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Eliminatus said:

chiken said:

Its a shame men start suffering from erectile dysfunction around the age yall are suggesting us spinsters start shooting for.
We have quite the range of medicinal help for that though. Some would even say its a boost over the norm. At least initially.


Yes, but just like its not cute that a chick needs lube after a certain age, its not cute when a man has to pop a pill for a 4hr erection.

Fair is fair.
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713nervy said:

Eliminatus said:

Plus trying to find a woman with no kids by this age is hard in most urban areas. Not saying kids are a deal breaker, but also, they kinda are for most. Even if they won't admit it.

For every woman with a kid, there too exists a man with a kid who probably didn't step up to take on 50/50 custody of his own child and therefore the woman is left to raise the child AND support her household while Weekend Dad gets to do whatever the hell he wants. So maybe reconsider the single woman who has a child bc she is probably a pretty capable badass and a victim of circumstance to the man who dumped his responsibility onto somebody else (her).


So the woman chose to reproduce with a deadbeat I'm supposed to feel sorry for her ?
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chiken said:

Its a shame men start suffering from erectile dysfunction around the age yall are suggesting us spinsters start shooting for.


You've watched too many cialis commercials. Guys with ED are typically really old or really fat or both
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GAC06 said:

chiken said:

Its a shame men start suffering from erectile dysfunction around the age yall are suggesting us spinsters start shooting for.


You've watched too many cialis commercials. Guys with ED are typically really old or really fat or both


Well, I declare! Someone needs to monitor my exposure to the real world and teach me what is right and wrong! I think I need a man to guide my way through life!
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Remember when this thread was about Green2Maroon getting baked and scoring? Man, that was a long time ago...

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Hydrocele_aggie said:

713nervy said:

Eliminatus said:

Plus trying to find a woman with no kids by this age is hard in most urban areas. Not saying kids are a deal breaker, but also, they kinda are for most. Even if they won't admit it.

For every woman with a kid, there too exists a man with a kid who probably didn't step up to take on 50/50 custody of his own child and therefore the woman is left to raise the child AND support her household while Weekend Dad gets to do whatever the hell he wants. So maybe reconsider the single woman who has a child bc she is probably a pretty capable badass and a victim of circumstance to the man who dumped his responsibility onto somebody else (her).


So the woman chose to reproduce with a deadbeat I'm supposed to feel sorry for her ?
Yawn.
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Every woman has the relationship they choose. Some choose bad, some choose good, and others choose an option that doesn't exist. But the ball is almost always in their court.
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Ags4DaWin said:

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My last boyfriend was 6'4" and ripped. He was not a millionaire.


And yet he was not good enough to marry.
You think you are proving us wrong.
You are just proving us right.

A woman's social value goes down after 30 and exponentially down after 35. So a woman over 35 either has to stay single, settle, or loosen her standards.

All the good men in the 35+ dating pool are either married or flush with tail from dating 20 year olds. They can do this because their social value is high. As a group they don't need or want a 35 year old woman because she brings nothing to the table.
First of all - hold onto some freaking horses, my guy, because WHOA! You're off to the races with some quick assumptions there, cowboy.

- "And yet he was not good enough to marry." Says who? I didn't see that come from her - did YOU not think he was good enough to marry? Was he not your type? She said nothing about her interest in marrying this guy in the first place. In fact, based on her previous posts, she sounds pretty content with her life as it is. I know this might be hard to swallow, but not all women desire marriage. And if they once did, they can damn sure change their mind.

- "You think you are proving us wrong. You are just proving us right." Uhh, my guy, does she really think that she's proving you wrong? I heard her share a single experience of a dude she recently dated who was tall and hot in response to someone else making a crack that women are entitled to tall, ripped millionaires because Disney taught them to be. I didn't hear her b/tch about him nor sing his praise. Offering a single experience in response to an offshoot snide comment doesn't sound like much of a case for/against the premise in the OP that you are fighting so valiantly to prove as correct - for women, anyway. Misogyny aside, of course.

Speaking of women, tell me more about a woman's social value and what a woman must do once she is over 35. Please! I really love it when someone feels entitled to defines another's worth - an entire gender's worth in this case - as if they are some sort of ****ing prodigy. That burden must be so hard for you. And yet you still have the time to perpetuate a really harmful double standard that only women are required to stay hot as they age, just so they can snag a good man like you! Because what would our poor lives be without a big strong man to give us worth?! You are just so smart, you know that? I'm sure that your wisdom far exceeds the ever-growing bald spot you hide so stealthily with a baseball hat or the very sexy c-pap machine that's required of you to sleep at night.

Would someone toss me a towel? I'm about to snail trail right off my couch with these guys - WHEW!
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scd88 said:

Remember when this thread was about Green2Maroon getting baked and scoring? Man, that was a long time ago...



YOU MEAN HIS LIGHTS OUT DATE?!?
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713nervy said:

Ags4DaWin said:

Ag_N_Houston said:


My last boyfriend was 6'4" and ripped. He was not a millionaire.


And yet he was not good enough to marry.
You think you are proving us wrong.
You are just proving us right.

A woman's social value goes down after 30 and exponentially down after 35. So a woman over 35 either has to stay single, settle, or loosen her standards.

All the good men in the 35+ dating pool are either married or flush with tail from dating 20 year olds. They can do this because their social value is high. As a group they don't need or want a 35 year old woman because she brings nothing to the table.
First of all - hold onto some freaking horses, my guy, because WHOA! You're off to the races with some quick assumptions there, cowboy.

- "And yet he was not good enough to marry." Says who? I didn't see that come from her - did YOU not think he was good enough to marry? Was he not your type? She said nothing about her interest in marrying this guy in the first place. In fact, based on her previous posts, she sounds pretty content with her life as it is. I know this might be hard to swallow, but not all women desire marriage. And if they once did, they can damn sure change their mind.

- "You think you are proving us wrong. You are just proving us right." Uhh, my guy, does she really think that she's proving you wrong? I heard her share a single experience of a dude she recently dated who was tall and hot in response to someone else making a crack that women are entitled to tall, ripped millionaires because Disney taught them to be. I didn't hear her b/tch about him nor sing his praise. Offering a single experience in response to an offshoot snide comment doesn't sound like much of a case for/against the premise in the OP that you are fighting so valiantly to prove as correct - for women, anyway. Misogyny aside, of course.

Speaking of women, tell me more about a woman's social value and what a woman must do once she is over 35. Please! I really love it when someone feels entitled to defines another's worth - an entire gender's worth in this case - as if they are some sort of ****ing prodigy. That burden must be so hard for you. And yet you still have the time to perpetuate a really harmful double standard that only women are required to stay hot as they age, just so they can snag a good man like you! Because what would our poor lives be without a big strong man to give us worth?! You are just so smart, you know that? I'm sure that your wisdom far exceeds the ever-growing bald spot you hide so stealthily with a baseball hat or the very sexy c-pap machine that's required of you to sleep at night.

Would someone toss me a towel? I'm about to snail trail right off my couch with these guys - WHEW!

37 with a receding hairline and a CPAP machine. At least I got the sleep apnea from Iraq.
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I challenge anyone to out-crazy that night.
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Haha. That's the one.
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If 30s & 40s are where it's at, why are hot teachers going for students?
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This. All these 17 year olds hitting it with 28 year old teachers.
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chiken said:

GAC06 said:

chiken said:

Its a shame men start suffering from erectile dysfunction around the age yall are suggesting us spinsters start shooting for.


You've watched too many cialis commercials. Guys with ED are typically really old or really fat or both


Well, I declare! Someone needs to monitor my exposure to the real world and teach me what is right and wrong! I think I need a man to guide my way through life!


Find one of those 50 year olds that likes to sit in bathtubs after taking cialis. Unfortunately those guys all have 40 year old wives in the next bathtub over
 
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