Tanya 93 said:
Infection_Ag11 said:
You *******s are making me side with Tanya. For shame.
It is just funny these guys are lecturing me on divorce when most of them have never experienced one.
Aand there it is.....when all other arguments and emotional appeals fail..... this is what they result to.
You're not a woman you have no business telling me what is right or wrong about my community's culture MISOGYNIST!
You're not gay, how dare you make an observation on what is right or wrong about my community's culture BIGOT!
You're not black/brown/latino/whatever how dare you make an observation on what is right or wrong about my community's culture RACIST!
Noone is saying every divorce is the woman's fault.
Can we all agree that if 90% of people are doing something that it is statistically significant?
So that leaves us with a quandary. Why are more women leaving now versus in the past? And does leaving make them happy?
First every study ever done shows that compared to their 1950's counterparts modern women are vastly more unhappy and vastly more medicated.
So why are more women leaving than ever before?
Is there something fundamentally flawed with our system that is encouraging and incentivizing this sort of behavior.
This is important because:
The number one predictor of abuse is a step parent in the home.
The number one predictor for failing out of highschool, drug use, jail time, and violent crime is a single mother.
If we want to improve our society we have to figure out why this is happening.
Which leaves us the following possibilities or a mixture of them:
The majority of men are **** husbands.
The majority of women are selfish and Shrews.
Men are incapable of filing for divorce.
The System is set up to incentive women to divorce men the second they feel like they are unhappy.
Marriage is a **** institution and unnecessary.
Take your picks from the above.