Frog_ said:
See, I hear what you are saying, and i sympathize with women who were not instilled with a self-worth in their upbringing that made themvome to that conclusion...but I was a kid in the 80s and they told us then 35 years ago that rape is not your fault and always tell. I have a book that I kept for my daughter about how to tell an adult about unwanted touching copyrighted in 1980s.
The lack of feelings of self worth should not be a barrier to the pursuit of justice for a crime. I am sorry, but not sympathetic because by not reporting you let a rapist go free to rape again.
In the case of #metoo where we are lumping groping, power plays, and other nonrape sexual offense, I am even less sympathetic. Truth is no woman had the balls to change jobs or report abuse. Woman was restrained and got away, and waited til June 2018 to tell, give me a break.
And all of that is great words until the guy you broke up with rapes you on your couch. Then reality sets in. You pray you aren't pregnant, you scrub your body so hard in a steaming hot shower trying to get every cell of him off of you, and you hide it.
If you hadn't of broken up with him at your apartment, he wouldn't have raped you.
If you had just slept with him while dating, your first time wouldn't have been with his hands around your neck or over your mouth.
It is awesome you have never been in this position. Everyone should be like you and not know what rape is like.
But we aren't. And your judgment on how to react is just ignorant bull*****