Asking previous dates will be awkward and maybe painful. But it could yield GOLD with regard to information to fix whatever your problem is.

Why don't you get paid:

I could only imagine what would happen if his former dates starting talking about this loser to their other friends and it became common knowledge that some grown adult was asking "What's wrong with me"? This isn't an episode of Seinfeld.

Don't call and say "what's wrong with me?"

Call and say, and this is really, really important, WITHOUT WHINING, "I've noticed a pattern and I was wondering what the turnoff was?" Just say, "I've just got a question, I'm not going to bother you."

Don't harass them if they say NO. Don't argue about what they say. Say thank you, have a nice day.

I won't post what I do for a living, but I make a respectable salary. I don't live with my parents. I had acne when I was in college (see unfortunate health problem), but my face is clear now.

I wouldn't mind showing people what I look like, but I would only be comfortable doing that through email. You send me a pic and I'll send you mine. twithappens at gmail.com

Don't effen do that man. Terrble idea.

I'm not a virgin.
I'm married.
I am not asking for advice.

I don't have toplay by your rules.

Fatty?

Feel free to PM it. If you send me a lewd photo, I'll get you banned. And I'll decimate you here.

Ok, if prostitutes and ugly church chicks are out, try picking up some fat or really ugly chicks. At least you'll get over the hump and get some experience beneath your belt.




All puns intended.

waiting for answers:

What do you do for a living?
Do you live with parents?
Do you have horrible BO/acne/teeth?
Are you a slob?
Are you an *******?
Areyou horribly self-centered?
Do you have anger issues?
Are you a whiner?
Are you a hypochondriac?
Do you have poor table manners?
Are your fingernails too long and/or dirty?

CW,
To each his own. However, I'd like to have some women chime in and give their opinion if they had a former call them after the fact and ask them what's wrong...regardless of the approach.

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Apparently not. Ironic don't you think.

The problem is you.

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CW,
To each his own. However, I'd like to have some women chime in and give their opinion if they had a former call them after the fact and ask them what's wrong...regardless of the approach.

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I am a chick.

WTF does it matter? He already blew it with them. So what if he looks like an effing loser to them? What's important is how he looks to his NEXT date.

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a small peen is not a health problem.

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"Dude go to Australia and do that virgin auction thing. You might be sitting on a gold mine"


Ha ha ha that is too good... "SITTING ON A GOLD MINE!!!"

Don't call me a loser CW. What did I ever do to you?

im fairly certain OP is gay, dont worry, lots of other gay men on this site if you need to talk or something, you are in good company

Also, I have not blown it with a chick yet. Pay attention.

Fake it 'til you make it.

I didn't say you were a loser. I said youlooked like a loser to the girls you have dated.

phew, i get worried when i go like 2 weeks without hittin up some girl. I can't imagine 28 years

Combat Wombat youre kind of being an ass, why dont you take the kid out ona date or do you go the other way?

I only go on dates with my husband.

Okay, I take back the loser comment. Maybe this is not a troll.

I asked a bunch of legitimate questions that will help asses the situation and he's still not answered most of them.

then leave him alone and dont tell him how to date - youre married youre out of the game. Might as well be his mother telling him what to do.

Twitt - you need a one night stand, build your conf.

HE CAME HERE LOOKING FOR ADVICE.

I did not tell him "how to date". I offered legitimate some suggestions, albeit unpopular ones, to find out why his dates don't turn into relationships. I also asked some questions that someone who is even remotely honest with themselves might be able to answer and see if there's some obvious turnoff.

I used some hyperbole about the loser thing. I took it back. I didn't suggest that he nail hookers or fat chicks.

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Sounds like Camo wants to sleep with this guy.

Another successful TA hookup!

I think you are putting the p on a pedestal. Once you stop doing that you should be good. Or if you find some hood rats they are pretty easy as well.

HTH

What's wrong with hookers?

I wasn't talking about your mom.

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then leave him alone and dont tell him how to date - youre married youre out of the game. Might as well be his mother telling him what to do.

Twitt - you need a one night stand, build your conf.

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I don't even know how to go about having a one night stand with a girl. I tend to just go after girls that I think are relationship material, but then they just dump me after like 5 or 6 dates.

Twit meet Deb
Deb this is twit

He drinks box wine too!