I crossed the seven-figure threshold earlier this year at age 41 (almost 42). I would have hit it in Feb/March, but the COVID crazies delayed it by a few more months.
In that number, I'm including my cash savings, 401k/403b, Roth, HSA, and the full cash value of my pension. I'm not including equity in my house.
I went to grad school and worked in academics and then a start-up, so my retirement savings was behind when I finally made the jump to corporate life about 8 years ago. Three moves in three years also cost me money (I missed the peak real estate market in College Station by about a year and lost money instead of making $60-$70k).
I'm a single mom and can be frugal or splurge, depending on the circumstance. My son and I have traveled extensively and those memories are priceless.
I buy new cars, trading them in after about 5 years, but I always pay them off in about 3.
House is modest by the neighborhood standards, but it's the most expensive one I've ever owned (did I say moving is expensive?).
I'm paying it down on a 15 year at 2.625%, and that alone has kept me from upgrading to a more expensive house, despite being tempted several times.
One thing I've noticed over the past few months is how much faster my money grows now that I have a more substantial sum. I always knew compound interest was critical to building wealth, but it's nice to actually see it happening every month.
I'm just hoping we avoid another drop in the stock market because of the election (or whatever other random reason gets Wall Street spooked).
I still have a little bit of room to improve my salary, but with a teenaged driver who will be in college in a couple of years, I don't expect that money will go to savings.
I can go back and look at the things I've spent money on, add them up in my head, and know that I could have hit this milestone a couple years earlier, but I don't believe in regret, and I'm pretty happy with where I am right now.
I suspect my college friends who have 20-25 years with CVX and XOM hit that milestone in their mid-30s