I'll play, since I like the way this was asked. A few thoughts:
I'm way past that in net worth, and I was born into a family with a net negative net worth (my parents were not educated or good planners). I won the lucky sperm club by virtue of the values my parents and grandparents thought me, not by their assets or education. I also was fortunate to have other people enter my life I could learn from.
Guiding principles in this regard are hard work, delayed gradification, focused on just a few things (kids, job, health and some sports), used education and hard jobs to increase my value to employers /markets.
Not quite 40, income well over 7 digits, with contract terms that protect my assets, etc
Yet my spending habits have trailed my job and income by at least one phase. When I was a manager I lived like an analyst. When I became an executive I spent like a Director. Today I pay 35% of gross income to taxes, I live off less than 15% and I save over half every year.
I worked my ass off to put experiences and brands on my resume that are attractive. A&M, Arthur Anderson, Stanford MBA, etc, etc. - this meant a lot of 80 hour weeks while most of my 20-29 y.o. peers had a lot more free time to enjoy.
I've taken on 2-3 pretty stressful jobs in organizations in crisis becuase I feel you can learn more and grow much faster under duress. You can also prove your value by accomplishing hard things.
As an investor I'm passive (don't have the time to gather the info) but aggressive in asset allocation and moderate in leverage.
Financial goal has been consistent since the beginning. Want to "go perpetual" before my kids get out of high school. For me that means an invested value where 3-4% spinoff is 2-3X my current total cost of living. I'm slightly ahead of pace.
So, I'm a ****ty golfer, there are a lot of places on earth I've not seen, I have a few great friends but don't even try to stay close to tons, I don't watch TV, the trade offs are real. L
But on the other hand my kids have a dad that makes them THE priority and they get to be proud of what Dad does for a job. And they don't have to pick a profession based off income like I did.