third coast.. said:
my grandmother is in one of those senior facilities where she has her own apartment with kitchen and what not but there is a clubhouse that serves all meals as well and they have a public pool. she can still drive and all of that but it just lessens her burden. I talked to her while we were in port and she said that they have been locked down so to speak for a while now, with no visitors allowed or anything like that, and the facility brings her her meals 3x a day. I am sure they are doing her laundry and what not as well. She was telling me how upset she was getting seeing other residents gathering in large groups and the like. I cant imagine what she must be feeling, being isolated, highly vulnerable at almost 90 and seeing other people there not taking it seriously. she was chipper otherwise though, which is great. The facility is in Cypress.
My mom is in a facility like that in Chattanooga and gets an infusion every month to boost her immune system...she was put on 14-day quarantine when she left to go to her infusion. I get it, I'm not mad about it, but it's got her down. She was used to her exercise, bingo and choir routine, and she'll be out of solitary next Thursday...until the next infusion. She doesn't do technology at all anymore and doesn't track as well as she used to (my physician sister suspects she has chemo-induced neurological deterioration that is starting to show), but she does at least like to read. I've basically ordered her to stay off the news, because she'll have it on all day and get stressed out needlessly.
I try to call every day so she at least has some variety in her day to day and to see how she is. She's fine now, but if she gets this ****, I don't think she'll survive it, given the weak immune system and being 76. Nothing to do about it except enjoy every call...