Why is dating after 35 such a beating?

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maroon barchetta said:

TexasRebel said:




WTH is this
DIY vasectomy kit.
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A woman with kids is not a problem for me.
Women with kids is an extremely hard sell. Seems like they got a real hard shift out of that mom mode. Seems like a lot of them are bitter about it too, and that's what gets me.

You single with a bunch of kids. I get that.

Point is, some of these single moms transcend reality and they need to lower their overall expectations.

Also the need to be taking care of those kids and not out slingin' it looking for a new baby daddy.

You got to steer clear of all that drama man. That's my advice.
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Brad Pitt never would have ended up with Angelina Jolie if he had listened to you.
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CGAg06 said:

I'm 38 and single, never married, solid job, no kids, no pets, and basically free to do whatever I want whenever I want outside the 9-5. A woman with kids is not a problem for me. I'm a pretty good looking guy. BUT I am 5'7" (actually that height for those that are question people's online heights). That wasn't a big issue when I was younger. But it seems to be more of one now. Plus my dogs passed away and I sold my boat. So my picture quality has gone down...lol. I'm also an introvert which makes things more fun. Although my last gf was an introvert and we clicked well. AND I live just north of Austin...so the dating pool is just grand...the things I see lol.

Dating over 35 does suck for all the reasons mentioned on here. Everything is a red flag depending on how the other person looks at it. Some are more real than others. For someone that tries not to judge people, dating is hard because that literally ALL it is.

An Aggie dating site would be great lol. My old roommates actually met on AggieDating.com back in the day and got married. It would be GREAT to date only Aggies. Maybe we need a dating section?


Women who discriminate based on height are just as bad as men who discriminate based on boob size. It's nice that they self select out of your dating pool.
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BenFiasco14 said:

https://instagr.am/p/CfvF_DgLGmq


Imagine her in a nice pair of low rise jeans like the chicks used to wear when I was in college instead of those awful mom jeans
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Women who discriminate based on height are just as bad as men who discriminate based on boob size.
It's not so much the boobs. It's the size of the woman attached to the boobs.
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Most American girls think they are way hotter than they really are and their attitude reflects this .

They should look in a mirror every now and then.
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LupinusTexensis said:

CGAg06 said:

I'm 38 and single, never married, solid job, no kids, no pets, and basically free to do whatever I want whenever I want outside the 9-5. A woman with kids is not a problem for me. I'm a pretty good looking guy. BUT I am 5'7" (actually that height for those that are question people's online heights). That wasn't a big issue when I was younger. But it seems to be more of one now. Plus my dogs passed away and I sold my boat. So my picture quality has gone down...lol. I'm also an introvert which makes things more fun. Although my last gf was an introvert and we clicked well. AND I live just north of Austin...so the dating pool is just grand...the things I see lol.

Dating over 35 does suck for all the reasons mentioned on here. Everything is a red flag depending on how the other person looks at it. Some are more real than others. For someone that tries not to judge people, dating is hard because that literally ALL it is.

An Aggie dating site would be great lol. My old roommates actually met on AggieDating.com back in the day and got married. It would be GREAT to date only Aggies. Maybe we need a dating section?


Women who discriminate based on height are just as bad as men who discriminate based on boob size. It's nice that they self select out of your dating pool.


This nice 99% of women judge dudes on height .knew this really tall girl 5 at best wouldn't even consider a dude not taller than her ..Tried to tell her those tall dudes would never date her seriously…
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HoseMad said:

my mothers friend has a 25 year old daughter that asked me out last week. Im 37. have no idea how guys can regularly subject themselves to "conversation" with girls that young. it made me yearn for an old and dried up 35 year old. not kidding.


I'm in my 40s. No way could I see myself dating someone that's anywhere in their 20s right now, especially in the era of social media. The young 20 somethings at work and the gym are absolute morons.
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Aggie5227 said:

Most American girls think they are way hotter than they really are and their attitude reflects this.
Most Americans would not survive anywhere outside of America. Would look like a walking freak show in most of the world. It's that bad,
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Aggie5227 said:

Most American girls think they are way hotter than they really are and their attitude reflects this .

They should look in a mirror every now and then.


what 3rd world country did you get your wife delivered from?
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My wife is completely unaware of how hot she is, which is why she agreed to marry me.
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There are many times I do not condone Sea Speed's opinions or asshattery but I will never stop shouting from the rooftops that all people should talk about their significant other the way Speedy talks about his treasure of a wife.

Sea Speed said:

My wife is completely unaware of how hot she is, which is why she agreed to marry me.
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Sea Speed said:

My wife is completely unaware of how hot she is, which is why she agreed to marry me.


She must be deaf too
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I'm all for a good joke at my expense, I just don't get this one. If you would have said blind, I would have understood.
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BenFiasco14 said:

Sea Speed said:

My wife is completely unaware of how hot she is, which is why she agreed to marry me.
She must be deaf too
Is there a dating app for deaf people. An under 35 deaf girl sounds really good right about now.
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lotsofhp said:

BenFiasco14 said:

https://instagr.am/p/CfvF_DgLGmq


Imagine her in a nice pair of low rise jeans like the chicks used to wear when I was in college instead of those awful mom jeans


Maybe a butterfly tramp stamp too and some body crystals of her initials to complete the early 2000s look
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Sea Speed said:

I'm all for a good joke at my expense, I just don't get this one. If you would have said blind, I would have understood.


Really?
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GAC06 said:

My wife is 11 years younger and was 21 when I met her. I didn't find it to be much of a problem but I can see how it could be, especially the TikTok nonsense
you met your wife when she was 10? Did you think - one day I am going to marry that 10 year old when she matures?
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Deaf and dumb is all I got but I guess it was just such a bad joke that that didn't even register. Idk. No skin off my back.
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Ragoo said:

GAC06 said:

My wife is 11 years younger and was 21 when I met her. I didn't find it to be much of a problem but I can see how it could be, especially the TikTok nonsense
you met your wife when she was 10? Did you think - one day I am going to marry that 10 year old when she matures?


Damn, giving wbt a run for his money
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Ragoo said:

GAC06 said:

My wife is 11 years younger and was 21 when I met her. I didn't find it to be much of a problem but I can see how it could be, especially the TikTok nonsense
you met your wife when she was 10? Did you think - one day I am going to marry that 10 year old when she matures?



the wife was 21 when he met her
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lotsofhp said:

BenFiasco14 said:

https://instagr.am/p/CfvF_DgLGmq


Imagine her in a nice pair of low rise jeans like the chicks used to wear when I was in college instead of those awful mom jeans


That chick is too hot to be criticized for pretty much anything
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Sea Speed said:

I am almost certain that comment about being dried up was tongue in cheek die to the overall tone of this thread.


I'm pretty sure a tongue somewhere else will resolve that dried up issue.
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This nice 99% of women judge dudes on height .knew this really tall girl 5 at best wouldn't even consider a dude not taller than her ..Tried to tell her those tall dudes would never date her seriously…
this reminded me of a girl i knew at A&M. Volleyball player that was 6'3. saw her years later on match.com and she had her height listed as 6'0. that made me lol.

really a crying shame, cause if she were 8 inches shorter, she would have been a 9 outta 10 and had the world at her hands. still single as of 5 minutes ago though.
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swimmerbabe11 said:

Ragoo said:

GAC06 said:

My wife is 11 years younger and was 21 when I met her. I didn't find it to be much of a problem but I can see how it could be, especially the TikTok nonsense
you met your wife when she was 10? Did you think - one day I am going to marry that 10 year old when she matures?



the wife was 21 when he met her
oh haha. I read it that HE was 21. I'm dumb.
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Sea Speed said:

Deaf and dumb is all I got but I guess it was just such a bad joke that that didn't even register. Idk. No skin off my back.


She must be deaf too, because if she had to listen to your **** takes and comments all the time she wouldn't have married you.
CNN is an enemy of the state and should be treated as such.
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42 said:

Sea Speed said:

I am almost certain that comment about being dried up was tongue in cheek die to the overall tone of this thread.
I'm pretty sure a tongue somewhere else will resolve that dried up issue.
That's God's stop sign baby.

A sign that you shouldn't even be be doing what you doing.

Thats god talking to you.

You trying to swim against you own instincts. You trying to swim upstream of where god's ideal plan for you.

Thats what people don't understand.
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Dating above 35 is about you trying to swim against nature.

You swimming upstream both directions.

If you are a man. You better off going with your instincts.

If you are an older woman, you might well start looking 10 to 20 years older at this point. That's your sweet spot.

Don't get caught in the slack water. Get out ahead of the curve. You'll come back and thank me later.
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Oh fun I'll play!
Ag_N_Houston said:


Your Age: 36

Looking for: a dude
Age: 25-45
Height: at least like 5'8". I don't wear heels often so it's not a big deal
Physique: I like 'em all the way from a dad bod to a CrossFit bod. I just don't want to be judged for having a little extra cushion.
Smoking: No
Drinking: sure
Education/Career: stable career, doesn't matter what the education is
Kids: either way. Like I've said before, I just don't want the option of kids in the future to be off the table
Other: I need to be with someone who is honest with open communication, someone who can handle my crazy life and I'll know I can count on them to be there, someone who tries to understand what I do.
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Pirate04 said:

LOL the high risk isn't for the getting pregnant part. But for those who really don't know, women don't tend to 'dry up' until they are nearing menopause.

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Cisgender women generally experience an increase in sex drive later than men. One study reveals that women between 27 and 45 years old report the highest interest in sex and more sexual fantasies than women in other age groups. Women also report having more sex during these years than women of other ages.

They don't get good until 30, great at 40, and freaks at 50.
Being in TexAgs jail changes a man……..no, not really
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Ag_N_Houston said:

A lot of us (me included) complain about the quality of the people in the dating pool. Many of us (me included) have been ridiculed for having preferences and told that we need to lower our standards...yada, yada, yada...

No one has actually talked about what their preferences are. Let's see them. List your preferences, not necessarily "deal breakers", but just the ideal things you are looking for in a partner. We all know that you will be hard pressed to find someone that matches all of them, but we all have our own ideas that we use to guide us in ourt dating and mating routines. Our preferences are what make up unique and noboday should be called out for what they prefer. If you like 'em short and wide - more power to you. If you like 'em rich and old - more power to you. If you like them barely legal - seek treatment.

Your Age:

Looking for:
Age:
Height:
Physique:
Smoking:
Drinking:
Education/Career:
Kids:
Other:


the older I've gotten the more I've realized none of this ish means anything to me. Age is probably the most determinant factor because I can't imagine a soul being in her 20s and who also has the life experience and wisdom that leads to a well balanced personality and outlook on life. I'm past the fairy tale shht and if a woman isn't well past the Disney princess outlook and firmly grounded in the mindset of "my life is what I make of it and nobody is going to fix it for me, I must participate in my own outcome" then nothing else in the parameters above means anything.
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This is healthy and I like it, Picasso. BUT - is there anything that revs your engine when you meet her? Olive skin? Red hair? One tit higher than the other?
 
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