Seems to work well as long as both people are getting relatively the same amounts of side-action. Problems brew when it immediately becomes apparent which person was the reacher and which was the settler in the relationship due to the tumbleweeds blowing through one person's pants and the line around the block waiting for access to the other's.
Open Marriages
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Last: 8 yr ago by AliasMan02
quote:quote:World's worst blizzard is heath bar. Gross.
Sounds like daddy issues mixed with mental illness to create the world's worst blizzard.
I normally agree with you on many things but, about this, you could not be more incorrect.
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Luckily I didn't have to date much before she fell in my lap in college.
Is it really falling in your lap if you actually paid for the dance? I still regret never going to the Stocking.
quote:Lol I never went there, either.quote:
Luckily I didn't have to date much before she fell in my lap in college.
Is it really falling in your lap if you actually paid for the dance? I still regret never going to the Stocking.
You didn't miss much.
quote:You would be better as the other woman in a relationship. I don't have any openings at the moment for someone your age, but I will let you know if I decide to try something a little older than the 25 year olds that are currently enjoying the big G.
Cheers to never having to worry about this.
I know several who are in an open relationship. My last one was as well ( blah blah blah bring it on, I don't care if you don't like it.).
One of the things that can make it implode in a second is violating boundaries. Boundaries have to be reasonable, and have to be fair, and cannot cha get in an instant.
Polyamorous relationships are a different story. I know several who have been together 10+yrs.
One of the things that can make it implode in a second is violating boundaries. Boundaries have to be reasonable, and have to be fair, and cannot cha get in an instant.
Polyamorous relationships are a different story. I know several who have been together 10+yrs.
Its disgusting and immoral .
I also think that one or the other, usually the man, thinks this is awesome he:she get to have sex with someone other than their spouse
Then a little while down the road he doesn't think it's so cool because he realizes he doesn't want wife with another man. What's good for the goose is not good for the gander.
If both parties are mature and can handle it, it's one thing. But there's usually no turning back
Then a little while down the road he doesn't think it's so cool because he realizes he doesn't want wife with another man. What's good for the goose is not good for the gander.
If both parties are mature and can handle it, it's one thing. But there's usually no turning back
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I know several who are in an open relationship. My last one was as well ( blah blah blah bring it on, I don't care if you don't like it.).
One of the things that can make it implode in a second is violating boundaries.
And pregnancy.
And STDs.
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I know several who are in an open relationship. My last one was as well ( blah blah blah bring it on, I don't care if you don't like it.).
One of the things that can make it implode in a second is violating boundaries.
And pregnancy.
And STDs.
And that's why you're not a dip**** about it lol.
As far as disgusting and immoral..... you're worried about that here?
quote:quote:You would be better as the other woman in a relationship. I don't have any openings at the moment for someone your age, but I will let you know if I decide to try something a little older than the 25 year olds that are currently enjoying the big G.
Cheers to never having to worry about this.
Lol wtf creeper
reddit.com/r/hotwife nsfw
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I don't think I know anyone in open marriages, but I did have a married male friend ask if I was into BDSM. Said his wife was curious and he had been wanting to ask for a while. Uh, no, but thanks for asking?!
i think he wanted to bang you
open relationships are for insecure *****s
quote:quote:Lol I never went there, either.quote:
Luckily I didn't have to date much before she fell in my lap in college.
Is it really falling in your lap if you actually paid for the dance? I still regret never going to the Stocking.
I did! A girl I knew won amateur night. (No rule 1 because I don't have any pics of her)
I worked at Cavender's with a girl who won once too...
Does this town start with an R? Town I know still has this its on the second generation.
Town I know starts with an R and they all hang out at a certain bar on the outskirts of said town.
quote:Open marriages are just another name for relationships where the woman is cuckolding the man because in every situation she is getting about 10 times the amount of strange he is, if he is getting any at all.
So a second friend has told me they are in an open marriage. The first couple was always a bit out there so wasn't a surprise. The second couple is closer to "normal" so more of a surprise.
I am not married so I was seeing what the married folks thought?
I honestly don't know how anyone can even listen to someone talk about their "open" relationship with a straight face. I'd be laughing my ass off the entire time.
Cuckolding is actually a completely different fetish. Which is cool, if that's what you're into.
The problem with the term "open marriage" is it is a blanket term applied to many different scenarios. Successful open marriages consist of two people who are polyamorous and have no resentment towards the other person having other relationships. Unsuccessful open marriages consist of previously closed marriages that have opened up due to one or both parties being bored, issuing an ultimatum, a final way to try and save the marriage, etc.
Also, different open marriages have different structures. In our marriage, for instance, we both do NSA play with friends/other couples, but we don't have other "boyfriends" or "girlfriends" because we want to save our deepest emotional intimacy just for each other. Other marriages people have both the wife and the "girlfriend" over for Thanksgiving dinner. That wouldn't work for us, and our open marriage wouldn't work for others.
Different strokes for different folks. An open marriage is just as valid as a closed one. The only thing that separates a "good" marriage from a "bad" marriage is whether or not both parties are on the same page with what they want the structure of their marriage to be, and where they want to go going foward. If you're not on the same page you're headed either for divorce or a long, unfulfilling marriage.
The problem with the term "open marriage" is it is a blanket term applied to many different scenarios. Successful open marriages consist of two people who are polyamorous and have no resentment towards the other person having other relationships. Unsuccessful open marriages consist of previously closed marriages that have opened up due to one or both parties being bored, issuing an ultimatum, a final way to try and save the marriage, etc.
Also, different open marriages have different structures. In our marriage, for instance, we both do NSA play with friends/other couples, but we don't have other "boyfriends" or "girlfriends" because we want to save our deepest emotional intimacy just for each other. Other marriages people have both the wife and the "girlfriend" over for Thanksgiving dinner. That wouldn't work for us, and our open marriage wouldn't work for others.
Different strokes for different folks. An open marriage is just as valid as a closed one. The only thing that separates a "good" marriage from a "bad" marriage is whether or not both parties are on the same page with what they want the structure of their marriage to be, and where they want to go going foward. If you're not on the same page you're headed either for divorce or a long, unfulfilling marriage.
Gentleman knows what he's talking about.
I'm assuming a couple things from the use of the term play, but I have a feeling we travel in similar circles to an extent...
I'm assuming a couple things from the use of the term play, but I have a feeling we travel in similar circles to an extent...
See you at the munch!
Buahaha. Oh lord I'll pm you...
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Cuckolding is actually a completely different fetish. Which is cool, if that's what you're into.
The problem with the term "open marriage" is it is a blanket term applied to many different scenarios. Successful open marriages consist of two people who are polyamorous and have no resentment towards the other person having other relationships. Unsuccessful open marriages consist of previously closed marriages that have opened up due to one or both parties being bored, issuing an ultimatum, a final way to try and save the marriage, etc.
Also, different open marriages have different structures. In our marriage, for instance, we both do NSA play with friends/other couples, but we don't have other "boyfriends" or "girlfriends" because we want to save our deepest emotional intimacy just for each other. Other marriages people have both the wife and the "girlfriend" over for Thanksgiving dinner. That wouldn't work for us, and our open marriage wouldn't work for others.
Different strokes for different folks. An open marriage is just as valid as a closed one. The only thing that separates a "good" marriage from a "bad" marriage is whether or not both parties are on the same page with what they want the structure of their marriage to be, and where they want to go going foward. If you're not on the same page you're headed either for divorce or a long, unfulfilling marriage.
You missed my point. I know exactly what each fetish is and exactly how the game works. The reality is that women are far far more successful at getting NSA sex than men. The only situation where it's not that way is if the man is famous and/or extremely wealthy. In virtually every other situation, a woman could get NSA sex within literal minutes of walking into a bar without putting forth any effort whatsoever beyond being willing.
This is why I say it's just another name for cuckolding because her number of partners/sexual encounters outside your own relationship will vastly exceed yours, which is why any man who willingly enters into such a relationship is a ***** and someone I'd laugh out of the room, but sure you go ahead and believe the fantasy because we all know your wife loves it!
I think for it to be cuckolding the husband has to watch his wife get banged by another dude.
Not positive. I'm not in to fetishes.
Not positive. I'm not in to fetishes.
Rusty, that's one form.
And Vander while it is vastly easier for the woman to get sex, it's NOT always the case that she's out hooking up that often. The kind of relationship he's talking about, and that mine was, is not open as in "**** whoever you want", it's open in that they may find other partners, with mutual consent ( I'm guessing).
My ex and I had a process. If either of us said no to the other, it didn't happen. If we didn't tell the other after the ok was given, it didn't happen ever again.
Open relationships don't mean go **** whoever you want. And if people try that, it blows the hell up in their face, fast.
And Vander while it is vastly easier for the woman to get sex, it's NOT always the case that she's out hooking up that often. The kind of relationship he's talking about, and that mine was, is not open as in "**** whoever you want", it's open in that they may find other partners, with mutual consent ( I'm guessing).
My ex and I had a process. If either of us said no to the other, it didn't happen. If we didn't tell the other after the ok was given, it didn't happen ever again.
Open relationships don't mean go **** whoever you want. And if people try that, it blows the hell up in their face, fast.
Btw, is that Vander as in the ghost and Vander from the cleric quintet? I
Yep.
quote:It doesn't matter whether she's out hooking up often or not, her options will always be 50 times greater than yours and she knows it. It's basically living with the Sword of Damocles right above your head because there is not a damn thing you could do about it if she decides to start chasing strange every single night. It's why Open relationships ALWAYS favor the woman because the man will forever walk on eggshells around his wife out of fear that if he says the wrong thing (and he will at some point) then she will drop that sword on his head.
Rusty, that's one form.
And Vander while it is vastly easier for the woman to get sex, it's NOT always the case that she's out hooking up that often. The kind of relationship he's talking about, and that mine was, is not open as in "**** whoever you want", it's open in that they may find other partners, with mutual consent ( I'm guessing).
My ex and I had a process. If either of us said no to the other, it didn't happen. If we didn't tell the other after the ok was given, it didn't happen ever again.
Open relationships don't mean go **** whoever you want. And if people try that, it blows the hell up in their face, fast.
quote:Who? My name is taken from https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Johannes_Diderik_van_der_Waals
Btw, is that Vander as in the ghost and Vander from the cleric quintet? I
I feel like Vander is a notorious poster from GB past, but I forget the details. Or am I thinking of someone else?
quote:Have to agree with this. There is no way my mind would say its ok for someone to plow my girl. My immediate thought would be to put the sob down with baseball bat to skull.
which is why any man who willingly enters into such a relationship is a ***** and someone I'd laugh out of the room