My life is complete. Beer posted on the same thread as Ag08

Ag of 08 is the second poster THIS WEEK to bring up their employer being contacted. I dont understand people who do this.

Sure, this is a place where we all have disagreements and even develop a loathing for various few that get under our skin, but seriously??? If it EVER crosses your mind to take it to that level, you need to leave here.

Married people from Texags with nothing better to do? I'm shocked.

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Patience and understanding of what? Your lifestyle being called a perversion, abnormal, unhealthy, and continuously mocked by multiple users? The days of mocking people different than you and expecting them to lie down and take a hot poker up the *** while you bully them are long over, friend.

Me personally, I could give a **** less what people think of my lifestyle, you do you and I'll do me. The tides of change are surging across our country; people trying to stand in the way of social progress like the Honorable Justice Scalia are dead or dying, paving the way for leaders who value all Americans, even if they don't look or act like them. Our "cause" is already being advanced whether people personally agree with it or not. For the people that agree with it, life in this country just keeps getting better and better. For the people that don't, they will continue to complain about "their" country going down the toilet (which is true, if your ideal America is a utopia of bigotry). Though certain users can feel comfort in the echo chamber that is created here for certain ideals, deep down they have to face the fact that they are fighting a losing battle, and they are getting fewer recruits each year.

You can either ride the tide of change, or find yourself crushed beneath its waves.

On that happy note, I think this topic is soon going to be derailed even more than it was already from people earnestly seeking understanding about open marriages to a "You're different from us and that's NOT okay" circlejerk. I don't think this thread is going anywhere positive, nor am I going to foster any more positive relationships from it (aside from those who have already contacted me interested in some fun!). Feel free to PM me if you have any questions about my personal life. It's pretty ****ing awesome. I'm out.

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You see my problem with open relationships has nothing to do with perversion or anything else. It's to do with overly complicating a situation that doesn't need to be complicated. Do you know how normal people deal with wanting to sleep around? They stay single. I know plenty of men in their 30s who have no plans at all to get married and **** whomever they want to ****. This is what normal people do when they don't really particularly want to be monogamous.

Why would anyone want to complicate this kind of situation with an actual relationship? It's like riding in a car with a non-working break and gluing the accelerator to the floorboard. At some point, you're going to experience a wreck and when it happens it's going to be a disaster. You're utterly delusional if you think that it's going to be a net positive upon your relationship in the longterm. It's a ticking time bomb and all it will take to set it off is someone stepping over a boundary.

Good luck on your endeavors. If r/polyamory is any indication of how these relationships typically go, then I'm sure you're going to need it.

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Open "marriages" are just one form of the vast perversion of marriage as God intends for it to be. It is an absolute fallacy and a joke. In fact, it is not a marriage at all. It is a continuous cycle of adultery that in no way leads to a genuinely fulfilling marriage.

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While I respect your view as it relates to Christainity, and I would ask you start a new thread on the Religion board. If I wanted to debate the religious aspects of open marriage I would do it on that board, not the general board.

I didn't make this thread to call anyone out for being in an open marriage. I was simply asking more about what everyone's view was since I now know two couples who have embraced this lifestyle.

I will say that I do not know if both are very strong relationships as that's not really any of my business.

I realize that this a personal lifestyle choice for these couples and I have no room to judge them as I can't even hold onto a boyfriend.

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If you asked for everyone's view...and his view is that it is a perversion of marriage...doesn't it still belong on this thread?

Or did you only want happy go lucky "everythnig goes" moral relativist answers? Cause you should have mentioned that in the OP.

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Damn some of y'all are judgemental *******s.

I'm trans, don't give a **** if you consider me female or not. Not having that argument AGAIN, think most of you are just jealous I have bigger tits than some of your wives....

I only date women. Dating in the tg world is complicated, and I got lonely and frustrated enough to date a guy. I settled because neither of us had much interest in sex, and we honestly made good friends.

I broke it n off because he was a hoarding slob, with absolutely no respect for anyone when it came to that, coupled with the fact I DON'T LIKE DUDES. I ended it, amicably, without a huge fight, and we still are very good friends.

We had ONE mutual friend that we BOTH where with on occassion. She is still good friends with us, hell we still go do things together. She had NOTHING to do with the break up, if anything she fought to see it not happen!

So yeah, take your opinion, roll it into a tight little ball, and shove it. Whole bunch of people on here passing judgement on a set of lifestyles they now less about than I do quantum mechanics.

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There is basically no nice way to ask this question..but how long do you have to be in a relationship with a dude before you decided (realized?) that you "don't like dudes"?

Wouldn't that become an issue fairly quickly?

What is it of anyone's business as to how any leads their life?