DBill said:
Little bit of a vent session here so bear with me!
9u team where almost all of the kids have been together since t ball and up. We have made some additions along the way, but the bulk of the team has been together for many seasons. I am the head coach of the team and have been since day 1 with these boys.
We recently moved leagues, 1 year ago, to be in a more competitive environment and have mixed in some USSSA tournaments as well. We have always been in the mix and have finished middle of the pack in our competitive league the past 2 seasons. We came from a very rec league over to a league where it's team registration only. We held our own, but didn't win any league championships.
I just got word that 2 of our better and more seasoned players are moving to another team in our league for next season. One of the players, the dad has been a coach with me for 2 years. I asked both parents why they are choosing to move and they said because they want to be in a more competitive environment. The team they moved to, won 2 more games than us in the regular season (out of 14) and got run ruled first round of end of season tournament.
All of these boys are 8 and 9 years old, and playing at a high level for their age.
I grew up playing baseball, played competitively and have seen a lot of "ring" or "win" chasing. They are still developing and gathering skills.
I knew we would get to this point some day with parents, but dang, didn't know it would be this early!!!!!!
I realize this is a little later, but we are on our 3rd team in 3 seasons of select. We made the jump after a bad season of little league and wanted at least some level of committment from players and parents and kids who actually wanted to play. Nothing against LL, just when 1/2 the team doesn't show up or care to be there, it gets annoying. This turned out a little longer than I thought, but wanted to highlight what happened to us (and another kid we knew) and why we jumped teams so much.
The first team started out well, but as the season went on, turned into more dad-ball than actual 'lets develop and win'. Like, beginning of the season, would switch out players to outfield from infield if they made simple, routine errors (missed fly ball, ball between legs, not running to get ball and missed easy out). By mid season, no more changes and the player with the most errors ALWAYS played third. Like 3-4x more erros than the next listed player on GC. So after an abmissal WS (9AAA ball), we decided to bounce off the team. WS wasn't expecting to go far, maybe halfway, but got bounced in the 2nd round because he left a kid who never pitched in until he almost hit his pitch count. In the 2nd inning. :-|
The fall season was with a team that we were supposed to be on from the spring, but didn't make because 4 kids left (10 then to 6, so we bounced and ended up with the team above). The coach was a friend of the program director who played in HS and had no kids but was good at developing players. Dropped down to AA, but since we were playing actual 10AA instead of 9AAA, it was not really dropping down, to a degree. But this team needed 2 new LL call-ups to fill out the 9 man roster (1st warning sign). The LLers were just that, warm bodies. While everyone has to start somewhere, these did not have the basic training. A few times they threw to the wrong base or stared at the ball before moving to try to catch it (being in outfield; missed it by 2-3 seconds due to staring at it). After another knock-out in the 1st round in the fall tournament, we played one additional tournament. We magiked somehow a 1st round seed, only to lose in the 2nd round (1st round bye) because out of 10 kids on the roster, we pitched 9; the one that didn't pitched was being 'saved' for the championship game (the next game). Who was that kid? Mine.
I will say my kid is not the best on any of the teams so far. Started out 2nd worst, moved up to top 1/3 on 1st team. This is looking at GC stats (I'm an ENGR, so numbers and I get along and provide a pretty good idea of how kids play). 2nd team? Easily top of the team at the end. Batting 200+ points above everyone. Taking out 3 high scoring games (out of 11), and he's accounting for like 40+% of the runs. But fielding and pitching? Don't know, because we practiced on the field with the 2nd team a total of like 6 times the whole season. Weather had nothing to do with it. And when we practiced, it was for maybe an hour then we left.
TL;DR: my son I think is decent, but we've moved to 3 teams in 3 seasons due to lack of development and 'good' playing time. Do I want to move teams? No. But is my son getting developed and playing and (as someone else said) getting 'good reps'? No. So off to a new team we go. Hopefully this season turns out better overall.
~egon