Howdy Ags,
I have been a longtime lurker and occasional poster on the H&F board, but I finally decided it was time to share my story.
Before I go any further, I want to just say I have so much respect for many of you on here who are super fit, running races and Tris, lifting tons of weight, eating a very disciplined diet and generally taking really good care of yourselves. When I was in school, I was in good shape (ooh rah morning PT), worked out, and ran consistently. But once I got my first desk job and joined the corporate rat race, the pounds crept up on me and I have been basically been 75-100lbs overweight since. I wish I had gotten into racing or kept up with my workout routines but for whatever reasons, I just didn't.
Some of you can and may disagree with what some of what I'm going to say, or think I am oversimplifying it, or think it doesn't go far enough, or that you should lift more, or run more, or whatever more. Thanks, I appreciate your opinion, and feel free to share. But this is more directed at the many guys and girls out there like me, want to be in better shape, or at least weigh less, but for whatever reason (no judgement) can't carve out the time between career, family, kids, whatever to put in as much time and discipline as you have / we wish we had. Props to you, but understand, not all of us have the time and resources some of you do to devote to your fitness at this point in our lives (as much as we wish we did.)
It's not that I haven't tried until now. Over the years...the past 25 years... I did all the fad diets from Atkins right on down the list. But the problem for me is, none of them were sustainable. As soon as I got sick of the diet and went off it, the pounds would come back. Not healthy, and even more, frustrating. But doing the same thing day after day just didn't work for me. And obviously not for most people considering my story is pretty common. A few years ago, I remember reading about Intermittent Fasting on this forum and thinking "sounds cool but not for me". Then a couple years ago - two years ago this coming May, I hit 275lbs and decided I really needed to get serious about it. My step daughter emailed me and said "Hey, Mom said you were trying to lose weight, I've been doing this and it really works!" And she attached a link to this video.
I watched the video, I bought the book (Search Fast 5/2 Diet Mosley on Amazon), and I'll be damned if for the first time in 20 years, I've lost the weight and kept it off. Yesterday I weighed 202 ... so the 100's are just around the corner for the first time in a quarter century. And that is losing 50 lbs between May and Thanksgiving last year, then taking a break and going on "maintenance" mode (one fast day a week) until the day after Super Bowl this year, started at 220 and down almost 20 again. It's the easiest thing I've ever done, and I feel great.I do a combination of 8/16 and 5/2 fasts. Mon/Thu is 600-700 calories only. Most other days I just skip breakfast. I used to be a huge "breakfast is the most important meal of the day" guy but not any more. I don't even think about food until lunchtime now, and in the mornings my head is clear and I have tons of energy - it's by far the most productive time of the day for me. I can't even imagine going back. Yes, I occasionally eat breakfast for a special occasion or when my wife makes Sunday brunch, but the point is - you don't have to be perfect. Just stick to it "most of the time."
You may think 600-700 calories sounds terrible, and I'll be honest - at first it is a little rough. Just focus on lots of veggies, drink lots of water (I drink a gallon a day) and you'll get through it. It gets easier pretty quick - in fact now I actually look forward to fast days (especially Monday after a weekend of eating whatever I want). But here is the key: "There is always tomorrow." You can do ANYTHING for a day, especially when you know that tomorrow is a regular day. It's just a matter of getting your body used to the fact that some days you will eat 2000 calories and some days 600 calories - occasionally 600 will be a normal day. And trust me, after a couple weeks, it will be no big deal.
If you have struggled to lose weight and have never gotten anything to work - I just want to encourage you to give IMF a try. It's easy, doesn't cost anything, there are no pills, no meetings, no monthly fees, you don't have to buy special foods....and you can start tomorrow. There are a ton of other medical and health benefits to IMF that you can see in that video or read about in his book or read about online or in other threads on here. I just want to let all of you "regular guys (and girls)" like me know - you don't have to be a super athlete or a body builder or in your 20's or whatever to practice IMF. No matter what your story - no matter how much you have to lose - It's easy, you'll feel great, and lose weight. (Check with your doctor first blah blah standard disclaimer...)
I know there are other threads on here about IMF and I could have put this post on any of them, but I just want those of you who are browsing over here because for the first time in a long time...or ever...you are sick and tired of being sick and tired and are ready to do something about your situation to know that this is an option that has worked for me. And for the record, I've shared it with my wife and a couple dozen friends and I haven't kept a spreadsheet or anything, but is seems like everyone who has tried it is losing weight and loving it.
It's not a diet - it's a lifestyle. I'll be happy to answer any questions.
Gig 'em
I have been a longtime lurker and occasional poster on the H&F board, but I finally decided it was time to share my story.
Before I go any further, I want to just say I have so much respect for many of you on here who are super fit, running races and Tris, lifting tons of weight, eating a very disciplined diet and generally taking really good care of yourselves. When I was in school, I was in good shape (ooh rah morning PT), worked out, and ran consistently. But once I got my first desk job and joined the corporate rat race, the pounds crept up on me and I have been basically been 75-100lbs overweight since. I wish I had gotten into racing or kept up with my workout routines but for whatever reasons, I just didn't.
Some of you can and may disagree with what some of what I'm going to say, or think I am oversimplifying it, or think it doesn't go far enough, or that you should lift more, or run more, or whatever more. Thanks, I appreciate your opinion, and feel free to share. But this is more directed at the many guys and girls out there like me, want to be in better shape, or at least weigh less, but for whatever reason (no judgement) can't carve out the time between career, family, kids, whatever to put in as much time and discipline as you have / we wish we had. Props to you, but understand, not all of us have the time and resources some of you do to devote to your fitness at this point in our lives (as much as we wish we did.)
It's not that I haven't tried until now. Over the years...the past 25 years... I did all the fad diets from Atkins right on down the list. But the problem for me is, none of them were sustainable. As soon as I got sick of the diet and went off it, the pounds would come back. Not healthy, and even more, frustrating. But doing the same thing day after day just didn't work for me. And obviously not for most people considering my story is pretty common. A few years ago, I remember reading about Intermittent Fasting on this forum and thinking "sounds cool but not for me". Then a couple years ago - two years ago this coming May, I hit 275lbs and decided I really needed to get serious about it. My step daughter emailed me and said "Hey, Mom said you were trying to lose weight, I've been doing this and it really works!" And she attached a link to this video.
I watched the video, I bought the book (Search Fast 5/2 Diet Mosley on Amazon), and I'll be damned if for the first time in 20 years, I've lost the weight and kept it off. Yesterday I weighed 202 ... so the 100's are just around the corner for the first time in a quarter century. And that is losing 50 lbs between May and Thanksgiving last year, then taking a break and going on "maintenance" mode (one fast day a week) until the day after Super Bowl this year, started at 220 and down almost 20 again. It's the easiest thing I've ever done, and I feel great.I do a combination of 8/16 and 5/2 fasts. Mon/Thu is 600-700 calories only. Most other days I just skip breakfast. I used to be a huge "breakfast is the most important meal of the day" guy but not any more. I don't even think about food until lunchtime now, and in the mornings my head is clear and I have tons of energy - it's by far the most productive time of the day for me. I can't even imagine going back. Yes, I occasionally eat breakfast for a special occasion or when my wife makes Sunday brunch, but the point is - you don't have to be perfect. Just stick to it "most of the time."
You may think 600-700 calories sounds terrible, and I'll be honest - at first it is a little rough. Just focus on lots of veggies, drink lots of water (I drink a gallon a day) and you'll get through it. It gets easier pretty quick - in fact now I actually look forward to fast days (especially Monday after a weekend of eating whatever I want). But here is the key: "There is always tomorrow." You can do ANYTHING for a day, especially when you know that tomorrow is a regular day. It's just a matter of getting your body used to the fact that some days you will eat 2000 calories and some days 600 calories - occasionally 600 will be a normal day. And trust me, after a couple weeks, it will be no big deal.
If you have struggled to lose weight and have never gotten anything to work - I just want to encourage you to give IMF a try. It's easy, doesn't cost anything, there are no pills, no meetings, no monthly fees, you don't have to buy special foods....and you can start tomorrow. There are a ton of other medical and health benefits to IMF that you can see in that video or read about in his book or read about online or in other threads on here. I just want to let all of you "regular guys (and girls)" like me know - you don't have to be a super athlete or a body builder or in your 20's or whatever to practice IMF. No matter what your story - no matter how much you have to lose - It's easy, you'll feel great, and lose weight. (Check with your doctor first blah blah standard disclaimer...)
I know there are other threads on here about IMF and I could have put this post on any of them, but I just want those of you who are browsing over here because for the first time in a long time...or ever...you are sick and tired of being sick and tired and are ready to do something about your situation to know that this is an option that has worked for me. And for the record, I've shared it with my wife and a couple dozen friends and I haven't kept a spreadsheet or anything, but is seems like everyone who has tried it is losing weight and loving it.
It's not a diet - it's a lifestyle. I'll be happy to answer any questions.
Gig 'em