We never wanted to enjoy the benefits of the large cruise ships. Too many people.
We prefer Star Clipper cruises. More relaxing, customers from all over the globe. Have dined with people from England, Germany, Romania, Poland, Ukraine, to mention a few. On our first cruise, the windward islands, the Captain was Russian, the Engineer was Bulgarian, ~220 passengers, ~120 crew.
My favorite cruise was from Rome to Athens. Saw Sorento/Pompeii, Messina, Olympics, Agamemnon's castle and tomb, Acropolis. Headed back to Athens then on to 3 stops in Croatia.
On one cruise, the owner's wife was aboard and greeted people boarding the ship and leaving on excursions. At night, they would let you steer the ship, under supervision, turn out most all of the ship's lights and the view of the Milky Way is absolutely astonishing.
Star CippersThe average age seems in the mid 40s to late 50s. Very laid back and relaxing. I am older and have absolutely no desire to be on a ship with 2,000 to 3,000 people.
Another alternative, if you or someone you know, is familiar with catamaran renting and hiring a captain and chef they are also very relaxing and some good snorkeling around the BVI. Soggy Dollar for the win.
Among the latter, under pretence of governing they have divided their nations into two classes, wolves and sheep.”
Thomas Jefferson, Letter to Edward Carrington, January 16, 1787