Tex117 said:
Because they all way to believe that they got there because they were "smart" and "good ol hard work" blah blah.
I'm sure they did do that, but had certain economic factors behind their control that either hurt or helped them.
So weird that they don't just admit this. And moreover, just how stupid real estate people can be.
So you want a participation ribbon that includes a house?
Many people either suck it up during hard times and bite the bullet to purchase a house or they recognize an opportunity and buy a house. Really smart people take a bigger risk during hard times to take advantage of a buyer's opportunity.
I think our first mortgage in 2005 was 5.375% or thereabouts. That limited our buying options and limited our budget to furnish it.
Smart and good ol hard work are not all it takes, but those things make you prepare for when opportunities do present themselves. We could have bought a bigger houses and stretched our budget. But I would not have been able to save money so that in 2009 when an opportunity to start a business came along, I had barely enough to buy in.
Not spending ridiculous when the business was paying me well allowed me to buy out my partners. That then allowed me to set the terms with those same partners when a new, much larger business opportunity presented itself.
Was I lucky? To an extent. But without smarts and hard work I would not have had a seat at the table when lady luck and senor opportunity showed up.
Quit blaming your problems on others.