Duncan Idaho said:
Are they down playing the idea of the hostess bars? I mean is it more prostitutiony than they are showing or is it just that terrible.
You get bottle service just to talk to a chick. So let's take the worst parts of a night club and combine it with the worst parts of a stripe club and include none of the upside from either.
It's basically what it's portrayed as, and sounds pretty pathetic. Japanese are weird, man. Regardless, love this show. From quora:
"A Japanese hostess bar is a drinking establishment which employs women to interact with customers in various ways. The customers usually pay an additional fee, in addition to their drinks, for this service. One type of hostess bar is also called a "snack" bar, because the bar pretends that the extra fee is actually for the small snack foods that are served to the customers as they interact with the female employees. For example, you might see a hostess bar in Japan called (often in English) something like, "Snack Kaori".
The additional price paid by customers at a hostess bar usually is quite exorbitant. The bars are generally frequented by men who are unwilling or unable to interact with attractive women in a social setting on their own. The interaction between the customers and the hostesses at the bars is typically limited to talking/flirting (with some light touching), drinking overpriced beverages (especially sparkling wine/champagne, but some employ the practice of having the customer buy a bottle of whisky which is kept at the bar for them to drink from whenever they visit), and singing karaoke. Many hostess bars try to cultivate "regulars" by encouraging the hostesses to go out to dinner with their favorite customers BEFORE the bar opens at night, then bringing the customer with them to the bar. The bar usually does not encourage their hostesses to date the customers to any additional degree than this, although it sometimes happens. Some hostesses will cultivate a "sugar daddy/baby" relationship with their regulars, who will buy them gifts, but a sexual relationship is usually not involved. Thus, what most hostess bars are selling amounts to nothing more than unrequited sexual tension and flirtation as part of Japanese nightlife's unique custom of elegantly and politely vacuuming up the entire contents of their customers' wallets and sometimes their bank accounts.
Sometimes a hostess bar will post some of their hostesses outside on the street early in the evening to try to bring in customers. Normally, they'll have a male staff member nearby ready to intercede if they get harassed by any of the drunk passerby. Some of the women, usually young, work as hostesses as a second job while some do it as their sole occupation. Working as a hostess is seen as moderately seedy and off-color in Japanese culture, but not overly so. But for this reason, many women in the hostess industry will keep it to themselves that they ever did that kind of work. Some hostesses will suffer some health problems or premature aging from excessive alcohol consumption or disruptions to their sleep cycles from the nature of the work.
If you search around some of the expat discussion forums about living in Japan, you'll see some stories of non-Japanese boasting about going to a hostess bar and hooking up with one of the hostesses. It can happen. But, my advice to most visitors to Japan is to give hostess bars a wide berth, as 90% of the time you'll spend hundreds of dollars and nothing will come of it. Also, some hostess bars operated directly by the Yakuza are notorious for extorting inflated bill payments from the customers. If that happens to you, the police will often not intervene on your behalf. If a good Japanese friend who you can trust invites you to a hostess bar, however, that's a different story, as they'll usually pick one that is more legitimate and he will explain to you how much it's going to cost and will ensure that you both get the best value for your money. If you can experience a hostess bar with a Japanese friend to run interference for you, then that may be a good way to see what they're like without spending too much money."
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