I don't particularly disagree with anything you said. I will develop one point a little bit though.
You mentioned the definition of an internet gun nut. I think that's perfectly fine. But two things to remember, and they are related.
First is that it's very difficult not to feel like you're being personally attacked when someone attacks the most flawed exemplars of people who resemble you in some way. We can probably all think of a time when someone felt compelled to defend themselves from an attack that was really aimed at Alec Baldwin or whomever.
The second thing is that anti-hollywood people (in this example) will intentionally conflate everyone in Hollywood, California, or even the American political left with Roman Polanski in an effort to score political points or even because they believe it. Of course, this makes us hyper sensitive and much more likely to do the first thing I mentioned above.
I've been trying to train myself to stop and think if people are really talking about me (to not get caught by the first point) and to be very thoughtful with my phrasing (to avoid committing the second). I'm not perfect by any means, but it really helps me talk about emotional topics without getting emotional or forcing other people to get emotional.
You mentioned the definition of an internet gun nut. I think that's perfectly fine. But two things to remember, and they are related.
First is that it's very difficult not to feel like you're being personally attacked when someone attacks the most flawed exemplars of people who resemble you in some way. We can probably all think of a time when someone felt compelled to defend themselves from an attack that was really aimed at Alec Baldwin or whomever.
The second thing is that anti-hollywood people (in this example) will intentionally conflate everyone in Hollywood, California, or even the American political left with Roman Polanski in an effort to score political points or even because they believe it. Of course, this makes us hyper sensitive and much more likely to do the first thing I mentioned above.
I've been trying to train myself to stop and think if people are really talking about me (to not get caught by the first point) and to be very thoughtful with my phrasing (to avoid committing the second). I'm not perfect by any means, but it really helps me talk about emotional topics without getting emotional or forcing other people to get emotional.