Why is dating after 35 such a beating?

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I am always wrong
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TexasRebel said:

Which is the "pro"?

The fat ass part. Or are you gay?
toolshed
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AG
TexasRebel said:

Which is the "pro"?


Women drivers….
Lex
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Booty meat.
TexasRebel
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Playing chauffeur to a fat ass is not my idea of a good relationship.

Although, I am forklift certified.
Not a Bot
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AG
She's 37, an attorney, and an excellent driver.

Stat Monitor Repairman
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Dating over 35 is about managing addiction.

You trying to manage whatever addictions you got … and also .. you trying not pick up any new bad habits.

Caffeine
Sugar
Sex
Alcohol
Weed
Nicotine
Pills and whatever else

Choose three off that list.

Thats probably the reality of the situation if you over 35.

You don't need any new bad habits.

So ya'll out and about. Keep that in mind.
1990Hullaballoo
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AG
Reminds me of an OLD Asleep At The Wheel song...





Irish 2.0
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Stat Monitor Repairman said:

Dating over 35 is about managing addiction.

You trying to manage whatever addictions you got … and also .. you trying not pick up any new bad habits.

Caffeine
Sugar
Sex
Alcohol
Weed
Nicotine
Pills and whatever else


Choose three off that list.

Thats probably the reality of the situation if you over 35.

You don't need any new bad habits.

So ya'll out and about. Keep that in mind.


I'm 7/7! What do I win?!
deer corn
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Is this thread still going?

Did anyone catch Pirate's attention?
AggieArchitect04
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AG
I tried to slide into her DMs but TexAgs wants me to pay for it and I ain't about that.
maroon barchetta
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AggieArchitect04 said:

I tried to slide into her DMs but TexAgs wants me to pay for it and I ain't about that.


Good call.

Women love cheap dudes.
AggieArchitect04
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Only a dumbass would try to satisfy a woman with money. It's a fools errand. People are never satiated by money. There can always be more. Next guy that comes along with more money to blow on her and you're yesterday's news.

Plus, it's 2022. Women work. They can use their own money.
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JobSecurity
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I just booked a trip to europe with the girl I've been seeing for 3 weeks. That's smart right?
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Thats good man. Thats good for you.

Anybody that say they wouldn't want to be going to Europe with somebody new is a lying mfer.

Outstanding work.
Ryan34
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AggieArchitect04 said:

Only a dumbass would try to satisfy a woman with money. It's a fools errand. People are never satiated by money. There can always be more. Next guy that comes along with more money to blow on her and you're yesterday's news.

Plus, it's 2022. Women work. They can use their own money.

Sure, but they don't get paid as much as men and really their natural place is at home, so they still value men who can provide.
Ags4DaWin
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JobSecurity said:

I just booked a trip to europe with the girl I've been seeing for 3 weeks. That's smart right?


Set the bar ridiculously high in the first 3 months so that you have to keep upping the ante to ridiculous heights afterwards.

Also traveling to foreign countries with a woman you barely know is a 4D chess level move.

What could possibly go wrong?
Irish 2.0
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JobSecurity said:

I just booked a trip to europe with the girl I've been seeing for 3 weeks. That's smart right?
Her eyes are going to get caught up in the 'romance' of some d-bag euro artist dude and she's going to leave you waiting for her at the Eiffel Tower...

Don't bring the broad. Break-up now. Turn her ticket in to upgrade to first class and fly to Amsterdam instead to bang a bunch of hookers and party your ass off. You'll thank me later.
Anchorhold
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or waiting to be an Eiffel Tower
maroon barchetta
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I went to London with a gal I had been out with twice and her friend that I met when we got to the airport.

The one I had been out with twice turned out to be an OCD control freak who had a schedule planned for every waking minute for the three of us except for one day when she went to visit family that lived outside of London. The other gal and me went to Westminster that morning to attend a service there and we sat in the Cloister. I highly recommend this if you get a chance. It's special.

Then we parted ways for the day and did our own thing and had a chance to breathe.

All my buddies were high fiving me when I was prepping for the trip. I could not wait to get away from that little tyrant. It helped me understand how she was single.

Pretty sure she still has never been married or in a long-term relationship.

Never saw either of them again after that trip.
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control freak who had a schedule planned for every waking minute
Oh ****.
jwoodmd
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Stat Monitor Repairman said:

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control freak who had a schedule planned for every waking minute
Oh ****.
If she has sex three times a day on this list (including a variety), then it just might be okay.
maroon barchetta
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She would have had an alternate list throughout the process.

No. Just no. She's a crazy cat lady by now.
barbacoa taco
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Stat Monitor Repairman said:

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control freak who had a schedule planned for every waking minute
Oh ****.
Have done trips like this with people who overplan everything. Would never do again. It truly ruins the trip, nothing ever goes as planned like that.
AggieArchitect04
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JobSecurity said:

I just booked a trip to europe with the girl I've been seeing for 3 weeks. That's smart right?

How old is she?
Then we can properly assign her value.
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maroon barchetta said:

I went to London with a gal I had been out with twice and her friend that I met when we got to the airport.
Started reading this post expecting a tale about an adventure loaded with three ways and other similar exploits. Much disappoint.
maroon barchetta
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ThunderCougarFalconBird said:

maroon barchetta said:

I went to London with a gal I had been out with twice and her friend that I met when we got to the airport.
Started reading this post expecting a tale about an adventure loaded with three ways and other similar exploits. Much disappoint.


I should have known when she called me saying that British Airways was running a $250 special to London and did I want to go, and I was out on a date when she called and told her I would call her back, and then got a call later saying "I went ahead and booked our flight and my friend is joining us" that she had some issues
jwoodmd
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maroon barchetta said:

ThunderCougarFalconBird said:

maroon barchetta said:

I went to London with a gal I had been out with twice and her friend that I met when we got to the airport.
Started reading this post expecting a tale about an adventure loaded with three ways and other similar exploits. Much disappoint.


I should have known when she called me saying that British Airways was running a $250 special to London and did I want to go, and I was out on a date when she called and told her I would call her back, and then got a call later saying "I went ahead and booked our flight and my friend is joining us" that she had some issues
So much waste here. This really could be a "Dear Penthouse" story.
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AggieArchitect04 said:


Plus, it's 2022. Women work. They can use their own money.


Wife's commission check paying for our trip to Hawaii in December.
Petrino1
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I'm a single man in my mid-30's. I have two dates lined up this weekend and will share the story of both of them. The first date happened yesterday:

I went out with this white girl from a dating app last night. She's tall, pretty, educated, in her late 20's, good job etc. It was literally one of the worst dates I've ever been on. She talked about herself and her job 75% of the time: how busy she is, how many hours she works, how she's a workaholic, how much money she makes, how she owns a nice house, how she has a side business worth a lot, how all of her friends are poorer than her. I wanted to shoot myself the entire time lol. Anytime I started to say something she would pull out her phone and start texting.

This is my typical experience dating white, American, careerist women. They love to talk about their jobs as if their entire self-worth is centered around their profession. I work as much as the next person but the last thing I want to do is talk about work, or how much money I have on a first date. I would rather eat glass.

This is why I try and stick to dating foreign-born Latinas since they have the same culture as me. You will never hear a foreign-born Latina talk about work, because she simply doesn't care that much about it. Its just a means to an end. Work will never love you back. Us Latinos understand this.
Irish 2.0
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Fixing to just do a mail order woman. There's a 2 for 1 special in Eastern Europe right now.
Anchorhold
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ea1060 said:

she has a side business worth a lot,



where is the link?
Anchorhold
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username checks out

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Where ugly men can get the girlWhere is a middle-aged, balding man a 'babe magnet'? In Eastern Europe

https://www.irishtimes.com/culture/where-ugly-men-can-get-the-girl-1.1098843

FTR I stumbled accross this when searching "average height eastern european women"
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AG
For some people their work is their identity. For others, their work is just something that they do. To each his own.
Irish 2.0
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Hey! I've still got a full head of hair *******!! It may be grey, but it's there dammit!
 
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