Why is dating after 35 such a beating?

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In reply to The Fife • 8:45a, 8/14/22
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The Fife said:
OasisMan said:
I would guess, in general, that kids (of guys) would be less of a deterrent for girls on the apps, than vice versa


& Looks like I'm about to find out (kids 14&12)

Be prepared to explain yourself, a lot. It's far less common for guys to end up with the kids in a divorce so there will be lots of questions as to what happened.

Also be able to say why in a way that doesn't come off as an attack or sounding bitter about your ex.

My reading comprehension is not good but I believe Oasis is saying kids are less of a dating deterrent to their fathers than they are to their mothers. Custody could likely be a factor.
You may not be a moron, but some people think you are.
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In reply to lotsofhp • 9:43p, 8/14/22
lotsofhp said:
Could also be fake


Just kill the fun over here
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Stringfellow Hawke
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6:36p, 9/5/22
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What a great bio…

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In reply to Stringfellow Hawke • 7:11p, 9/5/22
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But she has it set to "Relationship" of course. Bumble is the worst, get off of there.

As my monthly contribution I've been seeing a girl from hinge for a few weeks and it's going really well, 6-7 dates in at this point. And she's an aggie and under 35
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In reply to JobSecurity • 8:29p, 9/5/22
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Why is bumble the worst? I jumped on a couple of apps lately and my God it's a shhtshow and bumble seems to be fairly decent compared to the others.
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8:59p, 9/5/22
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How much are you app daters spending a month?
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In reply to AliasMan02 • 9:28p, 9/5/22
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Not a dime on the apps.
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10:21p, 9/5/22
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If you have children, it's not going to work with someone who doesn't.
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In reply to AliasMan02 • 10:27p, 9/5/22
AliasMan02 said:
How much are you app daters spending a month?
i used to use POF and spent nothing, but i was only ****ing fat chicks.

i went on tinder and bumble and discovered a whole new world.

those broads were so so self absorbed i went back to the low hanging fruit.
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10:33p, 9/5/22
God bless anybody that involved in this ***.
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In reply to Stat Monitor Repairman • 11:07p, 9/5/22
feel like we need to have a "red pill" thread for guys here. mods will probably delete it though here goes though
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In reply to Serious Lee • 6:51a, 9/6/22
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We didn't.
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In reply to superunknown • 7:57a, 9/6/22
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Maybe depends on where you are or what you're looking for. Quality of my matches on hinge was incomparably better than bumble and had a way better percentage that could actually converse lol. Hinge just seemed more serious I guess, less "swipey" so more effort by both sides
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In reply to AliasMan02 • 8:01a, 9/6/22
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AliasMan02 said:
How much are you app daters spending a month?


On apps or dates? I did try one month of premium or whatever hinge calls it and I think it was probably worth it.

Dates.. way too damn high. It doesn't bother me much though, I was picking places I wanted to try anyway so worst case I wasn't completely wasting my time and money
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In reply to JobSecurity • 11:24a, 9/6/22
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JobSecurity said:
But she has it set to "Relationship" of course. Bumble is the worst, get off of there.

As my monthly contribution I've been seeing a girl from hinge for a few weeks and it's going really well, 6-7 dates in at this point. And she's an aggie and under 35


There are totally normal bio's on bumble but I don't post those on here because that is not the point of the thread.

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1:59p, 9/6/22
Just joined Hinge. Having better success with connections than with Bumble. Think it is because I can actually comment or say something with my like whereas with Bumble it is straight aesthetics for the match basically
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2:26p, 9/6/22
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Update:

35, divorced and two kids (7&5). Been dating a woman from bumble for over a month now and it's going well. She is 38, never married, no kids, owns her own home and has a solid career. She's taller which has shrunken her dating pool.

There's hope out there fellas (and ladies over 35)
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In reply to _lefraud_ • 2:29p, 9/6/22
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_lefraud_ said:
She's taller which has shrunken her dating pool.


By her choice?
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In reply to _lefraud_ • 2:30p, 9/6/22
_lefraud_ said:
Update:

35, divorced and two kids (7&5). Been dating a woman from bumble for over a month now and it's going well. She is 38, never married, no kids, owns her own home and has a solid career. She's taller which has shrunken her dating pool.

There's hope out there fellas (and ladies over 35)
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In reply to TexasRebel • 2:32p, 9/6/22
Don't try to steal his lady!
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In reply to TexasRebel • 3:27p, 9/6/22
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TexasRebel said:
_lefraud_ said:
She's taller which has shrunken her dating pool.


By her choice?


Yes, she's 6ft

I'm 6'3, just to clarify, but I did laugh Irish
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In reply to _lefraud_ • 3:36p, 9/6/22
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So she's insecure?
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In reply to TexasRebel • 3:40p, 9/6/22
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Nope, she just wants a man that can reach the top shelf so she doesn't always have to.
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In reply to Irish 2.0 • 3:48p, 9/6/22
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When they're toe to toe his nose is in it; when they're nose to nose his toes is in it.
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In reply to TexasRebel • 5:23p, 9/6/22
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TexasRebel said:
If you have children, it's not going to work with someone who doesn't.


Not true. I know plenty of single girls and guys without kids open to dating people with kids. One of my good friends got remarried to a girl who couldn't have kids of her own and was happy to get to be a mom. The stigma isn't what a lot of people make it out to be.
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In reply to JobSecurity • 6:23p, 9/6/22
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JobSecurity said:
Maybe depends on where you are or what you're looking for. Quality of my matches on hinge was incomparably better than bumble and had a way better percentage that could actually converse lol. Hinge just seemed more serious I guess, less "swipey" so more effort by both sides


Tried hinge a while back and got absolutely nothing.

Havent paid for any apps but I've heard thats a way to weed out scammers and other trash. On the other hand maybe I'm trash too or DBU and that's why I'm not faring well. Not enough data to know yet.
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In reply to superunknown • 9:43p, 9/6/22
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Hay papi
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In reply to Irish 2.0 • 7:17a, 9/7/22
Irish 2.0 said:
Just joined Hinge. Having better success with connections than with Bumble. Think it is because I can actually comment or say something with my like whereas with Bumble it is straight aesthetics for the match basically

So what you're telling us is you are ugly af but charming?
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In reply to Proposition Joe • 7:27a, 9/7/22
Proposition Joe said:
Irish 2.0 said:
Just joined Hinge. Having better success with connections than with Bumble. Think it is because I can actually comment or say something with my like whereas with Bumble it is straight aesthetics for the match basically

So what you're telling us is you are ugly af but charming?


Well yeah. Anyone that's seen the post a pic thread knows that.
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In reply to Charpie • 8:47a, 9/7/22
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lol hey gurrrrrl
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12:52p, 9/7/22
What's the best lube for a high-mileage situation?

7-over if it makes a difference.
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In reply to Stat Monitor Repairman • 12:54p, 9/7/22
Stat Monitor Repairman said:
What's the best lube for a high-mileage situation?

7-over if it makes a difference.
Mayonnaise
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1:12p, 9/7/22
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Coconut oil
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In reply to Stat Monitor Repairman • 1:26p, 9/7/22
Stat Monitor Repairman said:
What's the best lube for a high-mileage situation?

7-over if it makes a difference.


7 over what?
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In reply to Ags4DaWin • 1:28p, 9/7/22
Ags4DaWin said:
Stat Monitor Repairman said:
What's the best lube for a high-mileage situation?

7-over if it makes a difference.


7 over what?


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