GAC06 said:
So maybe guys that struggle at dating in their thirties were once good at it but life experience evolved them to be undesirable to women? I guess that's possible but a little harsher than I was going for.
Perhaps. But who says they're undesirable in the first place? I don't think it's that simple.
The dating pool in the mid-20s is totally different than in the mid or late 30s. The landscape is different for dating and for life in general. By and large, by the mid-30s many people are married up with kids. So immediately the prospects are less.
The longer you live, and the more people you date, the more life experience you have. The more dating experience you. Not all those experiences are going to be good. And I think people tend to carry things from one relationship into the next. So that influences things.