713nervy said:
Ags4DaWin said:
Ag_N_Houston said:
My last boyfriend was 6'4" and ripped. He was not a millionaire.
And yet he was not good enough to marry.
You think you are proving us wrong.
You are just proving us right.
A woman's social value goes down after 30 and exponentially down after 35. So a woman over 35 either has to stay single, settle, or loosen her standards.
All the good men in the 35+ dating pool are either married or flush with tail from dating 20 year olds. They can do this because their social value is high. As a group they don't need or want a 35 year old woman because she brings nothing to the table.
First of all - hold onto some freaking horses, my guy, because WHOA! You're off to the races with some quick assumptions there, cowboy.
- "And yet he was not good enough to marry." Says who? I didn't see that come from her - did YOU not think he was good enough to marry? Was he not your type? She said nothing about her interest in marrying this guy in the first place. In fact, based on her previous posts, she sounds pretty content with her life as it is. I know this might be hard to swallow, but not all women desire marriage. And if they once did, they can damn sure change their mind.
- "You think you are proving us wrong. You are just proving us right." Uhh, my guy, does she really think that she's proving you wrong? I heard her share a single experience of a dude she recently dated who was tall and hot in response to someone else making a crack that women are entitled to tall, ripped millionaires because Disney taught them to be. I didn't hear her b/tch about him nor sing his praise. Offering a single experience in response to an offshoot snide comment doesn't sound like much of a case for/against the premise in the OP that you are fighting so valiantly to prove as correct - for women, anyway. Misogyny aside, of course.
Speaking of women, tell me more about a woman's social value and what a woman must do once she is over 35. Please! I really love it when someone feels entitled to defines another's worth - an entire gender's worth in this case - as if they are some sort of ****ing prodigy. That burden must be so hard for you. And yet you still have the time to perpetuate a really harmful double standard that only women are required to stay hot as they age, just so they can snag a good man like you! Because what would our poor lives be without a big strong man to give us worth?! You are just so smart, you know that? I'm sure that your wisdom far exceeds the ever-growing bald spot you hide so stealthily with a baseball hat or the very sexy c-pap machine that's required of you to sleep at night.
Would someone toss me a towel? I'm about to snail trail right off my couch with these guys - WHEW!
Wow. A nerve was definitely hit.
Just to make my appearance for the record in this thread, I am 34, I have abs, and I am also a millionaire, which by the way isn't all that difficult of a milestone to achieve these days if you are educated and have some modicum of a work ethic. There might be a single chick my age or older out there who isn't damaged, doesn't have kids, and is worth dating/marrying, but I've never met one. I am open to casual sex though if any of you ladies on the downslope of the social value curve are interested. I can't PM right now, so just reach out here in this thread.