Why is dating after 35 such a beating?

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Uncle Howdy
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In reply to utah, get me two • 9:34p, 5/16/22
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I didn't realize you're over 35. You act like you're in elementary school
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In reply to utah, get me two • 9:36p, 5/16/22
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utah, get me two said:
see most guys use the shotgun approach, shoot and hope you hit something

i use the sniper approach, find a match and start doing research on a similar topic you like and then slide in the DM's

Not creepy or surprising at all
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In reply to EFE • 9:41p, 5/16/22
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"So....(checking notes) I too like to live, laugh, and love. You tryna get the pipe?"
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9:41p, 5/16/22
1) keep it tight
2) have a good job and good money management
3) keep up the yoga

All of those combined keep the field open to quality candidates
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9:43p, 5/16/22
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Get a dog and save your money.
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utah, get me two
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In reply to superunknown • 9:44p, 5/16/22
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"So....(checking notes) I too like to live, laugh, and love. You tryna get the pipe?"
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In reply to EFE • 9:44p, 5/16/22
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EFE said:
I know a guy that has a quarterly trip to Vegas to clear his head. Nice guy, older, completely socially capable, well off. Doesn't want the drama of a full time night woman, would rather rent one that he can pick out trim package on and return to the dealership when he's done.

I'd be willing to bet that he has a LOT of unresolved childhood trauma.
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In reply to EFE • 9:46p, 5/16/22
thats pretty depressing honestly
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In reply to LupinusTexensis • 9:47p, 5/16/22
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LupinusTexensis said:
1) keep it tight
2) have a good job and good money management
3) keep up the yoga

All of those combined keep the field open to quality candidates


Listen up people… this chick gets **** done.
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In reply to agz win • 9:47p, 5/16/22
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agz win said:
Get a dog and save your money.


Dude, that's sick
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In reply to AggieArchitect04 • 9:49p, 5/16/22
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AggieArchitect04 said:
It sucks.
Why does it have to suck?

I'm about a year away from reentering the dating pool and I'll be 37. I'm dreading it very, very, very much.

It sucks because people don't know what they want, or they have a lot of unresolved sh/t that they've failed to / refused to deal with which makes them infuriating or hella f/cking annoying,
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In reply to utah, get me two • 9:49p, 5/16/22
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utah, get me two said:
see most guys use the shotgun approach, shoot and hope you hit something

i use the sniper approach, find a match and start doing research on a similar topic you like and then slide in the DM's


And one day maybe it will work out for you little buddy.
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In reply to 713nervy • 9:50p, 5/16/22
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Dunno, seems to have his ish together. I've never pried beyond his simple explanation because it made enough sense to me.
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In reply to Sea Speed • 9:51p, 5/16/22
its been a while since ive gave it a go. im probably rusty.

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9:51p, 5/16/22
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You people act like dating in your 20's was any better. Same crap, different decade.
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9:53p, 5/16/22
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Went on a lights out date a few weeks ago. We pretty much hung out at her place all night. Started out playing games and drinking, some music videos and what not. Then started lighting up some weed and vaping it. Things slowly grew more intense and we finally started doing it. She was a blast to hang out with and treated me like royalty. It didn't work out in the long run but she certainly lit a fire deep in me to get out there.
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In reply to chiken • 9:54p, 5/16/22
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No, the date I just described was way better than anything that happened in my 20s.
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In reply to Green2Maroon • 9:55p, 5/16/22
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Green2Maroon said:
Went on a lights out date a few weeks ago. We pretty much hung out at her place all night. Started out playing games and drinking, some music videos and what not. Then started lighting up some weed and vaping it. Things slowly grew more intense and we finally started doing it. She was a blast to hang out with and treated me like royalty. It didn't work out in the long run but she certainly lit a fire deep in me to get out there.


You might have mentioned this casually 90 or 100 times in the last week.
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In reply to chiken • 9:57p, 5/16/22
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I'm sorry. I was reminiscing about war with a fellow veteran. I'll stop now about my lights out date. Lol
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10:00p, 5/16/22
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But…fffff. A freaking 9.5 rating might be too light.
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In reply to Green2Maroon • 10:00p, 5/16/22
Congratulations on making the sex so much, Green2Maroon.
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10:01p, 5/16/22
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In reply to Green2Maroon • 10:03p, 5/16/22
Green2Maroon said:
No, the date I just described was way better than anything that happened in my 20s.


I am sorry that your 20s were so dull
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In reply to chiken • 10:04p, 5/16/22
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Lol okay okay.
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In reply to Uncle Howdy • 10:05p, 5/16/22
pot meet kettle
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In reply to LupinusTexensis • 10:07p, 5/16/22
LupinusTexensis said:
1) keep it tight


Great advice, all women should be doing their kegel exercises!
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In reply to Green2Maroon • 10:08p, 5/16/22
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Green2Maroon said:
Went on a lights out date a few weeks ago. We pretty much hung out at her place all night. Started out playing games and drinking, some music videos and what not. Then started lighting up some weed and vaping it. Things slowly grew more intense and we finally started doing it. She was a blast to hang out with and treated me like royalty. It didn't work out in the long run but she certainly lit a fire deep in me to get out there.


"met a cool chick but she dumped me pretty much immediately and now I can't stop talking about her"

You can't use the term "didn't work out in the long run" for a chick that you didn't even get a 2nd date with. It makes you sound desperate and crazy . You gotta hide that better
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In reply to AggieArchitect04 • 10:10p, 5/16/22
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AggieArchitect04 said:
Why is dating after 35 such a beating?
looks like I'm about to be there

At least I got a good job & monies to spend on these Baddies tho
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In reply to utah, get me two • 10:11p, 5/16/22
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Lulz
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In reply to DannyDuberstein • 10:14p, 5/16/22
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I'll still take what went down.
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10:16p, 5/16/22
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you should probably record yourself reciting all the details because it sounds like you may need to reminisce about it for a long time if you don't up your game.
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In reply to DannyDuberstein • 10:18p, 5/16/22
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Oh I'll up it. I'm totally freaking undeterred.
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In reply to chiken • 10:18p, 5/16/22
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And you didn't come out to happy hour and I did. Party pooper.
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In reply to DannyDuberstein • 10:20p, 5/16/22
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DannyDuberstein said:
Green2Maroon said:
Went on a lights out date a few weeks ago. We pretty much hung out at her place all night. Started out playing games and drinking, some music videos and what not. Then started lighting up some weed and vaping it. Things slowly grew more intense and we finally started doing it. She was a blast to hang out with and treated me like royalty. It didn't work out in the long run but she certainly lit a fire deep in me to get out there.


"met a cool chick but she dumped me pretty much immediately and now I can't stop talking about her"

You can't use the term "didn't work out in the long run" for a chick that you didn't even get a 2nd date with. It makes you sound desperate and crazy . You gotta hide that better

I did get a 2nd date.
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10:21p, 5/16/22
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Sounds like it went great.
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