Prognightmare said:
Good morning fam.
I'm curious, so I'd like to ask y'all a question, since it's the weekend and markets are closed.
What is the single most valuable lesson you've learned in your investing/trading experience? Regardless if you're a newbie or decades long trader/investor.
For me, it was learning to take a loss, when a trade moves against what you thought it would do. This was extremely hard for me at the beginning, but thankfully, it's almost automatic now and has saved me a lot money by not going down with the ship.
Forgive the length... great topic and hoping this helps someone. Definitely new to this but always followed what's been going on since 2008.
My lessons.
1. Educate yourself - no matter the experience level - keep learning. Videos, books, discussions, news, learn by doing. Research where your money is going.
2. Don't be afraid to fail. No ragrets. Not one letter. Life is about learning lessons, and trading falls there for sure. Learn from every trade
3. Emotions and feelings kill you here. It's not personal... it's strictly business.... this is a numbers game. Forget the last loss and focus on the next win. Personally, I think we see a 40% to 70% drop coming in the markets over time. However, I would be broke betting on that to happen. I lost $2,500 before I quit trading on ideas and not what the market tells me... thankfully, I learned on profits.
This also works on falling in love with a stock. My dad sold Apple the other day for $315 or so with an entry average around $110. He thinks it's the best company ever and would do no wrong nor lose money. After selling it this week, I've never seen him happier. He became obsessed with watching it and moved on now to enjoy his profits.
4. Let the market signal when to trade. Do not trade or be in the market just because. Timing is everything. Trend lines, MACD, resistance, blah blah etc.
5. Set limits. Be ok with taking profits and limiting losses, especially in times of volatility.