Wow! What a sweet thread! 7 pages later I have a different take.
We too operate a ranch. I consider myself pretty damn good at a lot of things, cooking being one of them, and beef being a particular line item I'm picky about.
You know we do? Nothing. We already know that there is a decent chance were going to be disappointed in a steak or burger. So why sweat and worry the whole time about finding The perfect place knowing your going to mostly waste you're money as you'll be mad?
At least getting a burger at Becks Prime won't set you back much so you can be basically happy about what it is when you go in.
As an aside Lynn's and brenners were always great for us 10 years ago. Set the expectation. Enjoy the meal, enjoy the company, and don't be a snotty doozhbag.