TxAggieBand85 said:
After 40 years and too many times of being lied to by management I side more on Infinity's approach.
Trust no one with career stuff.
Am fortunate that I'm retired and will do some encore work.
Keep interviewing and watch out only for yourself.
Right. I am a but shy of 30 years in the work force myself. I have seen quite a bit.
Lied to by management so many times. 10 years ago, I had 3 offers and in one the VP called me multiple times to get me to join him. I said no, and joined another company which seemed a better fit for the work they were doing. My first week there, a coworker says "you know they are planning to sell the company, right?".
My heart sank.
They had hired me for window dressing to potential buyers. We did get bought, twice in a month, and all management left with their packages. It was horrible situation with people slowly leaving.
To get rid of me (as I was no longer useful), they put me on PIP and eased me out. I had 4 managers in 10 months. I had some personal situations so I did not want to switch jobs (in hindsight I should have). One time I got called in by the VP of HR who accused me of filing for unemployment! I said beach (in my mind), don't you see me in front of you? I am still employed as of now. She got confused and said she will look into it and I left. Nothing after that. Weird place. But I went from 3 offers to not having a job again.
This is just one example. I no longer trust management. Those days are gone (if they existed). Just look for yourself and your family. I learned this very late in life as I was a naive fool. But I have taught my kids to be smarter in this than I was.
Corporations have created norms that people blindly follow that works to their disadvantage and the benefit of the corp. Like not revealing salaries. Why don't we do it? Because corps benefit.