The Chicken Ranch said:
We are in such a horrid environment for mid level professionals looking for roles, that these narcissists think they can game the hiring process use you like a commodity. And we let them.
Someday the worm will turn, but for now it's hell looking for a role, but it does expose the rotten culture of corporate gigs. They want to own you, your talents, and every aspect of your life.
What I would give for a do over! I would have gone to law school, been a single practitioner, and owned my own talents. Instead, I'm a slave to my boss. But I know the grass isn't greener elsewhere.
Things are awful right now, and companies are definitely treating candidates like garbage. Luckily, I have a job, but I really don't like it, so I have been looking off and on for the past year. I have noticed over the past three months that the salary ranges listed seem to have dropped. I did get an offer right around Christmas from an insurance company, but it came in at about $25K less than the low end of the listed salary range. It really felt like a bait and switch. I ended up saying no thanks.
I've had several weird ones (as mentioned above), but the weirdest was from a small startup. I had an initial interview with them, which went fine, but nothing special. I didn't hear from them for several weeks so I assumed I didn't get the job. Then after about a month, I got a call from them while I was out on a run. They wanted to do a "Pop Interview!" WTF? I've never heard of that happening. The guy seemed to get all pissy when I said I wasn't really in a position to an interview at that time. He ended up saying he'd try me again later, but I never heard from them, which I was fine with. Expecting me to be available at any time to do an interview is a huge red flag.
Anyways, even though I hate my current job, I've kind of come to the realization that I'm going to be stuck at it for a good while, because the market seems really bad, and the way these companies are treating interviewees is really a sign of a corporate culture I don't want to be involved with. It's why I'm looking to switch in the first place. I can't image not having a job and really needing to find one, though. I imagine there are a lot of desperate people right now, and these companies are just enjoying watching them dance for these jobs.