Office Space 2 (HR Edition)
I can be disgusted without hatred.moldaggie said:
Hey, I totally get and agree with not starting trans procedures too early. At the same time, it does seem lately like alot of trans hate on this board recently. It's not like trans or LGBTQ issues are new, they have been around for thousands and thousands of years. I know some trans adults and they aren't evil, actually nice people.
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93MarineHorn said:
I've been all over the Far East. Asian guys make for the most convincing trans women.
I was in a bar/club in Pattaya beach, Thailand that most of my fellow Marines didn't know was full of lady boys. THANK GOD I went golfing a day earlier with an Aussie who warned me about it. Not kidding, they were better looking than the women.Quote:
My buddy almost fell for one in Ciudad Acuna a long time ago. I was 100% convinced it was a she as well from a distance, until this old caballero I was shooting pool with told me to get my buddy because he was talking to a man. There were signs up close but still pretty damn convincing (no homo).
WTF...I had always heard about scrotum skin, but this is a first for me...lb3 said:I just confirmed that they use a piece of colon to make these counterfeit vags now days. I will never get close enough to one to know what it smells like so thanks for you insight BAP.WHOOP!'91 said:Man, I could have done without that thought.BAP Enthusiast said:wbt5845 said:
Young guy, in his 20's. Mixed asian/american ethnicity.
I figured something was up with this dude. He's real thin but his body shape has been changing over the last few months. Hadn't really paid too much attention, but it was noticeable. Guessing it was hormone therapy.
He then shows up on our group vacation/out of office sheet as out for several weeks, starting last Monday.
Then we have a group meeting with someone from HR. He underwent the knife earlier this week for the big surgery called vaginoplasty. When he comes back, his name will now be the feminized version of his given name.
We were right up threatened with dismissal if we caused any trouble, up to and including using the wrong name or pronouns. Obviously, anything of a humorous nature would warranted dismissal as well. HR rep made a point of making prolonged eye contact with older dudes like me. Maybe my manager warned her.
Frankly, he was a good looking guy and and little on the short side, so I think (s)he's gonna make a really pretty woman. That being said, he really will need the up tops addressed to maximize his (oops, her) looks. I doubt I'll suggest it though.
So I have this to look forward to in a few weeks.
Nah, he'll be one of the 41% soon. You won't have to worry about him and his feces smelling neovag soon.
Not a fair comment. This board generally doesn't care what adults do. It's the grooming, the forcing into society, etc. Not too long ago, I read you were a bigot if you wouldn't date a trans person. That kind of stuff is a non-starter.moldaggie said:
Hey, I totally get and agree with not starting trans procedures too early. At the same time, it does seem lately like alot of trans hate on this board recently. It's not like trans or LGBTQ issues are new, they have been around for thousands and thousands of years. I know some trans adults and they aren't evil, actually nice people.
houag80 said:
Yep, I would have advised HR that very instant...if as OP claimed....they were making a big deal of it and subtly threatening olds like myself. Hostile work environment and age discrimination....they would be settling quickly and expensively because at my age and position I truly don't give a ***** and would be public about it.
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refer to you as el conquistador.
Trust me on this,93MarineHorn said:
BAP, you crossed a line with that post. Horrific!
It isn't unless the company he works for is a covered entity, which it most likely is not.WHOOP!'91 said:That seems like a HIPAA violation.wbt5845 said:
Young guy, in his 20's. Mixed asian/american ethnicity.
I figured something was up with this dude. He's real thin but his body shape has been changing over the last few months. Hadn't really paid too much attention, but it was noticeable. Guessing it was hormone therapy.
He then shows up on our group vacation/out of office sheet as out for several weeks, starting last Monday.
Then we have a group meeting with someone from HR. He underwent the knife earlier this week for the big surgery called vaginoplasty. When he comes back, his name will now be the feminized version of his given name.
We were right up threatened with dismissal if we caused any trouble, up to and including using the wrong name or pronouns. Obviously, anything of a humorous nature would warranted dismissal as well. HR rep made a point of making prolonged eye contact with older dudes like me. Maybe my manager warned her.
Frankly, he was a good looking guy and and little on the short side, so I think (s)he's gonna make a really pretty woman. That being said, he really will need the up tops addressed to maximize his (oops, her) looks. I doubt I'll suggest it though.
So I have this to look forward to in a few weeks.
TChaney said:Trust me on this,93MarineHorn said:
BAP, you crossed a line with that post. Horrific!
He's holding back. A LOT.
When people say horrors they mean exactly that.
I get what you are saying. Here is the rub for me. This person can go do whatever they want without affecting me. However, when they demand that I participate in what I consider a delusion is when I start having a problem. Why should someone's world view or self view cause me to alter my life or views?moldaggie said:
Hey, I totally get and agree with not starting trans procedures too early. At the same time, it does seem lately like alot of trans hate on this board recently. It's not like trans or LGBTQ issues are new, they have been around for thousands and thousands of years. I know some trans adults and they aren't evil, actually nice people.
With all due respect, BS. I'm not seeing a lot of "trans hate." Joking, yes.moldaggie said:
Hey, I totally get and agree with not starting trans procedures too early. At the same time, it does seem lately like alot of trans hate on this board recently. It's not like trans or LGBTQ issues are new, they have been around for thousands and thousands of years. I know some trans adults and they aren't evil, actually nice people.
WHOOP!'91 said:Not a fair comment. This board generally doesn't care what adults do. It's the grooming, the forcing into society, etc. Not too long ago, I read you were a bigot if you wouldn't date a trans person. That kind of stuff is a non-starter.moldaggie said:
Hey, I totally get and agree with not starting trans procedures too early. At the same time, it does seem lately like alot of trans hate on this board recently. It's not like trans or LGBTQ issues are new, they have been around for thousands and thousands of years. I know some trans adults and they aren't evil, actually nice people.
I don't hate anyone unless they have earned it individually. Being opposed to a special interest group pressing their advocacy onto your kids, for example, isn't "hate".
Just starting this rabbit hole.BAP Enthusiast said:TChaney said:Trust me on this,93MarineHorn said:
BAP, you crossed a line with that post. Horrific!
He's holding back. A LOT.
When people say horrors they mean exactly that.
The rabbit hole is deep and very very wide. The things these people speak about regarding their hatchet wounds or flesh sticks (the ftm version) are bad enough to sear into your brain.
Normal people don't know and just think this is something normal. These surgeries are an abomination. I cannot actually believe they have been board approved. The stories of regret like this are endless. The pictures look like someone grafted Cthulhu or some sort of horror movie Eldritch Abomination on to someone's body.
Whatever normies may have thought about the situation is wrong, it's far worse than you could ever imagine.
lb3 said:Just starting this rabbit hole.BAP Enthusiast said:TChaney said:Trust me on this,93MarineHorn said:
BAP, you crossed a line with that post. Horrific!
He's holding back. A LOT.
When people say horrors they mean exactly that.
The rabbit hole is deep and very very wide. The things these people speak about regarding their hatchet wounds or flesh sticks (the ftm version) are bad enough to sear into your brain.
Normal people don't know and just think this is something normal. These surgeries are an abomination. I cannot actually believe they have been board approved. The stories of regret like this are endless. The pictures look like someone grafted Cthulhu or some sort of horror movie Eldritch Abomination on to someone's body.
Whatever normies may have thought about the situation is wrong, it's far worse than you could ever imagine.
Here is a teen trans. She was ftm and back to mtf and it's sad.
But this YouTuber, Blaire White is a MAGA trans mtf. Nice to see they aren't all groomers.
https://m.youtube.com/c/BlaireWhiteX/videos?view=0&sort=p&flow=list
The law prohibits discussion in schools with those children about sex or gender. It doesn't send ANY message unless the LGBTQ parents send the children a message at home. That's on THEM.moldaggie said:...WHOOP!'91 said:Not a fair comment. This board generally doesn't care what adults do. It's the grooming, the forcing into society, etc. Not too long ago, I read you were a bigot if you wouldn't date a trans person. That kind of stuff is a non-starter.moldaggie said:
Hey, I totally get and agree with not starting trans procedures too early. At the same time, it does seem lately like alot of trans hate on this board recently. It's not like trans or LGBTQ issues are new, they have been around for thousands and thousands of years. I know some trans adults and they aren't evil, actually nice people.
I don't hate anyone unless they have earned it individually. Being opposed to a special interest group pressing their advocacy onto your kids, for example, isn't "hate".
I actually agree with the K-3 law and I also can see how that group also sees that as an attack. Think about kids who have lgbtq parents and what message that sends. Or a child or teen who is lgbtq and what that message sends to them.
I had one in my office years ago. When HR told us, it was mainly in non-specifics. "Everyone here knows Joe, and know that he's been gone for a while. Joe will be rejoining us soon, and you'll certainly notice some changes. All we ask is that Joe is welcomed back to (company) like the valued employee that he is..."Boo Weekley said:Hypothetically, what if he gave them permission to give everyone a heads up to smooth the back to office transition? Assuming he'd have to sign something?Anonymous Source said:
Yeah, if HR told you the dude was having a vaginoplasty, that's a big damn HIPAA violation.
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Frankly, he was a good looking guy and and little on the short side, so I think (s)he's gonna make a really pretty woman.
Exactly... and the veiled threat from HR is another point. OP isn't the one who sought this situation, and can't be forced by HR to approve/conform to it outside of simply doing their job... deviation from that could get the company sued. Plus, wonder if everyone's health plan costs will be going up next year in part because of the 'surgery'?houag80 said:
Yep, I would have advised HR that very instant...if as OP claimed....they were making a big deal of it and subtly threatening olds like myself. Hostile work environment and age discrimination....they would be settling quickly and expensively because at my age and position I truly don't give a ***** and would be public about it.