I recently got a Model Y LR. Would have gotten a performance but opted for the third row jump seats since we have kids. I was pretty nervous, traded in a Tahoe for it, but the car has blown me away. Beginning with the buying process it seems like over and over again I find myself saying "oh, that's nice."
Charging
I live in a Houston suburb and drive around 85 miles a day round trip not including kids' extracurricular activities. The battery is recommended to sit at 80% max charge for daily use, and I usually end the day around 40% charge. So it's plenty even for a heavy commute.
I average around 675 kWh per month on the car with that driving, so you can figure your "gas" cost there. I have a nights free charging plan, so my electricity / "gas" cost per mile is literally zero.
I've taken it on two long trips now, used supercharging for both. No issues at all, as with the wife and kids end up stopping more often than you need to charge anyway... The navigation system routes you to the chargers, and there are a surprising amount of them (way more than I thought).
That being said, you need to charge at home. Don't expect to charge it at superchargers all the time. A wall connector is great to push 40 or 50 amps in. For reference, on a 50 amp circuit my car charges at a net rate of 12 kW, so it charges for 2-3 hours each night. If you don't drive quite much, you can get by with a 220 on a lower amp circuit. Installing the wall connector is not difficult - took me around 3 hours including the panel work and trip to home depot to buy the wire.
Driving
The car is a blast to drive. Just the acceleration is simply fun, and it handles great.
Once you get used to one pedal driving (took me about... a day) it seems dumb driving an ICE car. The pedal is heavy, but that makes it easier to drive one pedal with regen braking. I was nervous about one pedal, needlessly. It was super easy to adjust to.
FSD is a game changer and for me personally well worth the $99/mo. I get in my car, it is already set for my destination (nav learns your habits) and set to cabin temperature automatically, get out of the driveway / out of the gate of the company property, engage autopilot, and generally don't touch the steering wheel til I get home. In Houston traffic. It's good, and it has gotten noticeably better since I got the car.
Misc
I do some work in audio, and am kinda picky about sound systems - this thing sounds better than the Bose system in the Chevy by far (that system really sucked) or the stock VW system. I prefer it to the Audi B&O premium sound system (B&O always sound tinny to me). It does have some tonal similarities to the B&O system, and I read that Tesla had B&O involved in the design - so take that for what its worth. The sub is nice, and the multiband EQ is better than the usual three band you get in most cars.
The user interface is much better than any other car I've had. Very intuitive in a lot of ways. Voice commands work well. The big screen is great.
The car is a little "tweaky" - you have some setup, and there are a lot of options. But once you do it, you don't have to mess with it any more, and the driver profile system works really well. So if it feels overwhelming, just take it easy and dont scroll through all the setup options. Most aren't really necessary.
The model Y itself is basically the same size as an Audi Q5, if that helps as a reference. The X is the size of a Q8.
Find someone to give you a referral code, its $2k off the car. Any Tesla owner will do it because they get $1k for the referral (pays for accessories and supercharging).
It's just a great car. I really enjoy it so far. I think it's probably the best vehicle I've ever owned, which sounds ridiculous and I can't believe I'm saying it. But it's true.
Comparison vehicles - my parents are on their second Kia. I was shocked when they bought the first one, my dad was kind of like others on here as a never EV-er but they loved their Nero and really, really love their EV9 now. So check that one out. It's comparable to the Audi etron options. I preferred the Model Y to both in the end. I also looked at Rivian but I was worried about the stability of that company, and it was significantly more expensive. The Model Y value seems completely unbeatable.
Model X is super cool (falcon doors) but so much more expensive I couldn't justify it.
If the EV works for you range-wise, it really is an inherently nicer driving experience than an IC engine.