barbacoa taco said:
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2) Masculine men are toxic - you just made this up.
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Um, here you go: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Toxic_masculinity
Have you really never heard of toxic masculinity?
Rather than respond to your whole post I wanted to just address this.
Take a look at the wikipedia article. The concept of "toxic masculinity" does not mean traditional masculinity in itself is toxic. It means there is a VERSION of masculinity that is toxic. The ugly, negative version of masculinity that entails homophobia, misogyny, suppressing emotions, bullying, and violence. These are not good things and should not be encouraged or normalized as part of traditional masculinity.
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Other traditionally masculine traits such as devotion to work, pride in excelling at sports, and providing for one's family, are not considered to be "toxic".
Donald Trump is a perfect example of toxic masculinity. I find it hilarious how conservatives idolize him as a "man's man." He's anything but that. He's a whiny little b*tch. He's narcissistic, he's a bully, he divides people, he ****s over his employees and contractors, he complains about EVERYTHING, he lies constantly, and he is a sore loser who can't accept he lost.
No self respecting man or woman would ever try to instill these traits in their son. Which is why toxic masculinity is a bad thing and should be discouraged.
I like this response.
First of all, I take umbridge over many things you say as fact that has no support. You say that he is:
1) Narcissistic: check. He's a DC politician. Please name a non-narcissistic DC politician.
2) Bully: check. Good for being a dealmaker, bad as a politician. But, not bad when you are an instrument of change.
3) Divides people: Um, how? Not purposefully. Not any worse than Obama by result, so, tough to measure it that way. He has principles. That means he will divide people. I have many bad things to say about Obama, but I do think he is a man of principles. I just kind of despise his principles.
4) He f's over his employees and contractors - weak sauce, need sources, need litigation wins by employees, and an analysis of how many employees he has versus how many employees that have successfully sued him. This is an easy thing to prove objectively, and I have seen no objective data.
5) He complains about everything: Check. He's a perfectionist. Not his best trait. Comes with the package. No one is perfect, even you.
6) He lies constantly: This is an interesting one that probably deserves it's own thread. If you make the definition of a lie constant across all communications, he lies about 5% as much as the MSM. My mom taught me that, if you tell someone something knowing that they will come away with an understanding that isn't true, that is a lie. It doesn't matter what words you use. It doesn't matter what the definition of "is" is. Under this definition of lying, Trump is likely the person in DC, outside of SCOTUS, that lies the least.
7) He is a sore loser: check.
8) He can't accept the FACT that he has lost: That isn't a proven fact. There is an easy way to prove that someone has won or lost. The powers that be have chosen a path where it is murkey. He is right to call it out.
As for, is Trump Masculine? He provides. He creates wealth. Provider is the #1 job of a man, other than, maybe, semen. He has some major qualities, which are completely ignored by the MSM, and some faults, which are the only thing the MSM talks about. But, to say he isn't masculine? Really?
How many women have you had go to bed with you by grabbing them by the *****? Let me tell you a secret. If YOU grabbed them by the *****, you would go to jail. What is the difference between grabby you, and grabby Trump?