Dang man just saw this. That's scary, glad everything is ok. My mom told me when I had my first - "don't worry, babies are built to survive new parents and older siblings." Ha!
prayers sent.Crusaders41 said:
Please pray for my marriage.
Reed McDonald 92 said:
I'm not good at asking for help, but here goes...
My 12-year old son was diagnosed with severe autism about 10 years ago. He is non-verbal. His condition has not improved much since his diagnosis, and in some ways, it has gotten worse. He's pretty much an adolescent baby. For at least the last 5-6 years, he has had mildly violent outbursts. That is until puberty arrived. Now, there are holes in the drywall, broken doors, etc. And at nearly 50 years old, I am quickly wearing down.
Please pray for my son, Cameron, that he overcome whatever pain is causing his violence and finally find comfort, and maybe a little bit of normalcy. Please pray for his older brother, who I was never able to take on a father-son outing; please pray for his younger sister who fears her brother and who also suffers from occasional neglect due to all the time we dedicate to her brother. And both siblings have unfortunately had to see their parents get into nasty arguments from the never-ending stress and sleepless nights. Pray that they find peace and understanding that ours is not a normal family.
Finally, please pray for his mother and me. Due to Cameron's unpredictable, potentially violent behavior, I am literally under house arrest, as I have been for about the last 5 years and will be for the foreseeable future. We don't have any extended family nor friends close enough to ask for assistance. And should we dare take him to the park, or anywhere, and he get violent, you would undoubtedly think I was killing my kid when actually, I'm just trying to prevent him from hurting himself or others. Not only that, but should he have an outburst while one of us was driving, it could end horribly. So, we stay home day after day, week after week, year after year.
I'm sorry that I waited so long to ask for prayers from my Aggie family. But I'm asking now. If you made it this far, thank you.
You're doing the Lord's work! Most folks, even family, don't know how to engage, so they just avoid us. I'm sure the girl's mom was relieved that you took control of the situation. For what it's worth, when I'm in the pool with Cameron, I'll take him underwater if he gets out of line with me. For some people, that seems mean, but I know of nobody who is more in his element than my Cameron in any body of water.swimmerbabe11 said:
I had a difficult kiddo this summer who would pull out her hair. Not autistic, but sensory symptoms and what not presented the same.
I explained to her mom that if she tried to hurt me, I would take her underwater with me. It was kinda funny watching her mom be relieved that I wasn't going to be scared or use kid gloves and that I understood hair pulling was absolutely not allowed.
But getting her comfy with floating on her back was probably one of my favorite swim lesson accomplishments because it went from scary to comforting.
Im so glad yall have things that work!
God will open the right door. Romans 8:28 always comes to my mind in situations like this. Will continue to pray.swimmerbabe11 said:
Apparently the position was cut. They loved me, but it just isn't the right time.
(See also: Psalm 139. This post is long enough without me adding it here).Matthew 6:25-26 said:
"Therefore I tell you, do not be anxious about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink , nor about your body, what you will put on. Is not life more than food and the body more than clothing? Look at the birds of the air: they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value that they?"
Romans 1:7 said:
To all those [on TexAgs] who are loved by God and called to be saints: Grace to you and peace from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.
I mean, you're welcome, but that one's on the Spirit. I've felt unusually compelled to post it for the last day or so but didn't really have time to organize my thoughts until this afternoon.swimmerbabe11 said:
Not to get too mushy or personal or whatever, but on a day like today, feeling very lonely and rejected.. that was very good to read. Thank you.