LupinusTexensis said:
Weight can be a result of up to 70-80% genetic. I try not to be a judgmental ***** when I meet someone over weight because I know nothing about their health and personal history. She is doing what she loves and wants to do while she can which is more than many can say themselves.
https://www.health.harvard.edu/staying-healthy/why-people-become-overweight
She needs to do it while she can because she will soon die of heart disease.
Hopefully.