Houston man must pay child support for kid that's not his

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Tanya 93
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In reply to Chickenhawk • 9:25a, 7/26/17
GeorgiaAg85 said:
Tanya 93 said:
GeorgiaAg85 said:
Abolish child support. This problem disappears.

It might even help in the area of unwed mothers(I'm using this term loosely). If the woman has to foot the entire bill if the father(again, term used loosely) doesn't want to support the child, I'll bet the instances of "oops, I forgot to take my bc. Now give me $1000 a month for 18 years to pay for my salon tri... er, the child."
No.


I guess it was a crazy idea. Personal responsibility isn't cool anymore. Oh well, I tried.
Yep. He is personally responsible for becoming a father.
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In reply to Know Your Enemy • 9:30a, 7/26/17
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Kee Kee said:
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The article I read this morning said he met the child ONCE. He didn't not assume the role of father.
you still owe child support that accrued before the DNA test proves you're not the father
I don't pay close attention to this board but I read enough to know you're a whacked out chick. Are you really saying that this dude should owe child support for a ******* he didn't father and only met one time?


Can't speak for whether she believes it's right or not, but I think she's stating that that is the law, as it was noted earlier in the thread.
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In reply to Know Your Enemy • 9:32a, 7/26/17
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Junkhead said:
combat wombat said:
So only women have personal responsibility when it comes to the creation of a child? Last time I checked you need a man and a woman to create a child.
But yet only one to kill a fetus.
Bringing it.
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In reply to PseudonymK • 9:33a, 7/26/17
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Kee Kee said:
combat wombat said:
The article I read this morning said he met the child ONCE. He didn't not assume the role of father.
you still owe child support that accrued before the DNA test proves you're not the father


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In reply to Frederick Palowaski • 9:35a, 7/26/17
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She is right, that's the law.
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In reply to superunknown • 9:36a, 7/26/17
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She is right, that's the law.
Then the law is an ass.
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In reply to combat wombat™ • 9:37a, 7/26/17
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So only women have personal responsibility when it comes to the creation of a child? Last time I checked you need a man and a woman to create a child.


Look, my point is simplistic, I admit. And yes, it takes two to tango. However, as we are constantly reminded that only one side of the equation carries the child.

I guess "my body, my choice" is only applicable when one wants to murder a child...but tie that child to an 18 year annuity, and all of a sudden the argument becomes "it takes two".
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In reply to Know Your Enemy • 9:37a, 7/26/17
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I believe that's wrong. Fathers have, or should have, rights to accompany their obligations.
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In reply to Tanya 93 • 9:38a, 7/26/17
Tanya 93 said:
GeorgiaAg85 said:
Tanya 93 said:
GeorgiaAg85 said:
Abolish child support. This problem disappears.

It might even help in the area of unwed mothers(I'm using this term loosely). If the woman has to foot the entire bill if the father(again, term used loosely) doesn't want to support the child, I'll bet the instances of "oops, I forgot to take my bc. Now give me $1000 a month for 18 years to pay for my salon tri... er, the child."
No.


I guess it was a crazy idea. Personal responsibility isn't cool anymore. Oh well, I tried.
Yep. He is personally responsible for becoming a father.


Nope. It is the mother's whim that determines whether or not he will be a father.
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In reply to Claude! • 9:39a, 7/26/17
Claude! said:
superunknown said:
She is right, that's the law.
Then the law is an ass my dude.


FTFY
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In reply to titanmaster_race • 9:40a, 7/26/17
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titanmaster_race said:
Junkhead said:
Kee Kee said:
combat wombat said:
The article I read this morning said he met the child ONCE. He didn't not assume the role of father.
you still owe child support that accrued before the DNA test proves you're not the father
I don't pay close attention to this board but I read enough to know you're a whacked out chick. Are you really saying that this dude should owe child support for a ******* he didn't father and only met one time?


Can't speak for whether she believes it's right or not, but I think she's stating that that is the law, as it was noted earlier in the thread.
Well then the idiot lawmakers need to correct that stupidity ASAP.
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In reply to Chickenhawk • 9:45a, 7/26/17
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GeorgiaAg85 said:
Tanya 93 said:
GeorgiaAg85 said:
Tanya 93 said:
GeorgiaAg85 said:
Abolish child support. This problem disappears.

It might even help in the area of unwed mothers(I'm using this term loosely). If the woman has to foot the entire bill if the father(again, term used loosely) doesn't want to support the child, I'll bet the instances of "oops, I forgot to take my bc. Now give me $1000 a month for 18 years to pay for my salon tri... er, the child."
No.


I guess it was a crazy idea. Personal responsibility isn't cool anymore. Oh well, I tried.
Yep. He is personally responsible for becoming a father.


Nope. It is the mother's whim that determines whether or not he will be a father.


My ex just up and decided she wanted out. Would not discuss anything about reconciliation or saving the marriage. So, divorce. Instant child support payment for me. Was told by my lawyer that Texas is so overwhelmingly in favor of the mother no matter what that it would be next to impossible to get full custody and that I'd be paying child support regardless.

So, women....if you wanna lay down and get bred every couple of years so you dont have to get a real job, the state of Texas makes it really easy for you.
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In reply to Chickenhawk • 9:47a, 7/26/17
GeorgiaAg85 said:
Tanya 93 said:
GeorgiaAg85 said:
Tanya 93 said:
GeorgiaAg85 said:
Abolish child support. This problem disappears.

It might even help in the area of unwed mothers(I'm using this term loosely). If the woman has to foot the entire bill if the father(again, term used loosely) doesn't want to support the child, I'll bet the instances of "oops, I forgot to take my bc. Now give me $1000 a month for 18 years to pay for my salon tri... er, the child."
No.


I guess it was a crazy idea. Personal responsibility isn't cool anymore. Oh well, I tried.
Yep. He is personally responsible for becoming a father.


Nope. It is the mother's whim that determines whether or not he will be a father.
She cannot make him a father if he doesn't have unprotected sex.
This was always the possibility from his actions. Next time, don't have sex and then when she says the child is yours, instant DNA testing so you can prove you never had sex.
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In reply to superunknown • 9:54a, 7/26/17
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superunknown said:
She is right, that's the law.


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In reply to Tanya 93 • 9:59a, 7/26/17
What if she poked holes in his condom?
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In reply to titanmaster_race • 10:00a, 7/26/17
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titanmaster_race said:
What if she poked holes in his condom?


What she dug the condom out of the trash cash and shoved it up in her hooha?

Stop with the stupid arguments. Control what you put your dick in and this becomes a moot point.
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In reply to combat wombat™ • 10:02a, 7/26/17
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combat wombat said:
titanmaster_race said:
What if she poked holes in his condom?


What she dug the condom out of the trash cash and shoved it up in her hooha?

Stop with the stupid arguments. Control what you put your dick in and this becomes a moot point.
That's why I always check her bathroom for a turkey baster before I have sex.
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In reply to Tanya 93 • 10:04a, 7/26/17
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Tanya 93 said:
GeorgiaAg85 said:
Tanya 93 said:
GeorgiaAg85 said:
Tanya 93 said:
GeorgiaAg85 said:
Abolish child support. This problem disappears.

It might even help in the area of unwed mothers(I'm using this term loosely). If the woman has to foot the entire bill if the father(again, term used loosely) doesn't want to support the child, I'll bet the instances of "oops, I forgot to take my bc. Now give me $1000 a month for 18 years to pay for my salon tri... er, the child."
No.


I guess it was a crazy idea. Personal responsibility isn't cool anymore. Oh well, I tried.
Yep. He is personally responsible for becoming a father.


Nope. It is the mother's whim that determines whether or not he will be a father.
She cannot make him a father if he doesn't have unprotected sex.
This was always the possibility from his actions. Next time, don't have sex and then when she says the child is yours, instant DNA testing so you can prove you never had sex.
Yes, because condoms work 100% of the time. It says so on the package, right?
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In reply to titanmaster_race • 10:08a, 7/26/17
titanmaster_race said:
What if she poked holes in his condom?
Then he shouldn't be having sex with someone he can't trust not to poke holes.
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10:08a, 7/26/17
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No one forces you to have sex. A child is always a risk when you have sex. Therefore, you have to be responsible for that possibility.
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In reply to Tanya 93 • 10:10a, 7/26/17
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Tanya 93 said:
titanmaster_race said:
What if she poked holes in his condom?
Then he shouldn't be having sex with someone he can't trust not to poke holes.
I hope you're not really this stupid.
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In reply to combat wombat™ • 10:21a, 7/26/17
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No one forces you to have sex. A child is always a risk when you have sex. Therefore, you have to be responsible for that possibility.


And I completely agree. I just believe there is a better vehicle than child support. The scenario that the current system causes is often as follows (I'm assuming we are only discussing the fathers that want to be a dad, the deadbeats are a different discussion all together):

Dad gets ordered to pay child support. In order to meet his obligation, he has to work a second job/tons of ot.

Mom decides it isn't enough, takes him back to court to modify. She argues that dad doesnt exercise all his visitation, so the kid isn't with him enough, therefore she needs more cs to pick up his slack.

She wins bc dad has indeed missed some visitation bc he has to be at work to meet the aforementioned obligations.

And she can ask the court to reduce his visitation as well. It becomes a vicious cycle.
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10:23a, 7/26/17
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She wins bc dad has indeed missed some visitation bc he has to be at work to meet the aforementioned obligations.

And she can ask the court to reduce his visitation as well. It becomes a vicious cycle.
You reap what you sow ladies.
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In reply to Know Your Enemy • 10:23a, 7/26/17
Junkhead said:
Tanya 93 said:
titanmaster_race said:
What if she poked holes in his condom?
Then he shouldn't be having sex with someone he can't trust not to poke holes.
I hope you're not really this stupid.
nevermind

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10:41a, 7/26/17
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58 replies so far without this (I'm disappointed):

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In reply to Al Bula • 1:38p, 7/26/17
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Kitten With A Whip said:
I never had a child out of wedlock.
Congrats? Is this like saying you never killed a person or you never humped a family member?

Could be wrong here but I don't think you can pat yourself on the back for not doing something you aren't supposed to do.
The **** I can't! In today's society where women use abortion as their choice of birth control, I sure as hell can pat myself on the back for not putting myself in that situation. And, no, I have never killed a person, which includes not killing an unborn child in a society where that is acceptable and rampant, I will proudly take your congratulations even though it was a sarcastic and ****ty remark.
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In reply to superunknown • 1:50p, 7/26/17
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superunknown said:
GeorgiaAg85 said:
Tanya 93 said:
GeorgiaAg85 said:
Tanya 93 said:
GeorgiaAg85 said:
Abolish child support. This problem disappears.

It might even help in the area of unwed mothers(I'm using this term loosely). If the woman has to foot the entire bill if the father(again, term used loosely) doesn't want to support the child, I'll bet the instances of "oops, I forgot to take my bc. Now give me $1000 a month for 18 years to pay for my salon tri... er, the child."
No.


I guess it was a crazy idea. Personal responsibility isn't cool anymore. Oh well, I tried.
Yep. He is personally responsible for becoming a father.


Nope. It is the mother's whim that determines whether or not he will be a father.


My ex just up and decided she wanted out. Would not discuss anything about reconciliation or saving the marriage. So, divorce. Instant child support payment for me. Was told by my lawyer that Texas is so overwhelmingly in favor of the mother no matter what that it would be next to impossible to get full custody and that I'd be paying child support regardless.

So, women....if you wanna lay down and get bred every couple of years so you dont have to get a real job, the state of Texas makes it really easy for you.

I have 2 co-workers that were cheated on by their wife and both ended up getting screwed.

The first wasn't father to the kids. He had adopted her kids from a previous relationship. She was screwing his best friend and he found out because her kids told him what was going on. She took the house and his hot rod in addition to having to pay child support when she got custody of the kids that weren't biologically his.

Second was the father. Wife was running off on "business trips" and screwing her boyfriend on co-worker's dime. She took the house, his car and half of the SWA points he had accrued through work in addition to child support when she got custody because he travels too much.
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In reply to chjoak • 1:53p, 7/26/17
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The first wasn't father to the kids. He had adopted her kids from a previous relationship. She was screwing his best friend and he found out because her kids told him what was going on. She took the house and his hot rod in addition to having to pay child support when she got custody of the kids that weren't biologically his.
An adopted kid is the same thing as one you made from scratch. He's got plenty to be upset about but paying child support for kids he didn't make isn't one of those things.
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In reply to chjoak • 2:00p, 7/26/17
chjoak said:
superunknown said:
GeorgiaAg85 said:
Tanya 93 said:
GeorgiaAg85 said:
Tanya 93 said:
GeorgiaAg85 said:
Abolish child support. This problem disappears.

It might even help in the area of unwed mothers(I'm using this term loosely). If the woman has to foot the entire bill if the father(again, term used loosely) doesn't want to support the child, I'll bet the instances of "oops, I forgot to take my bc. Now give me $1000 a month for 18 years to pay for my salon tri... er, the child."
No.


I guess it was a crazy idea. Personal responsibility isn't cool anymore. Oh well, I tried.
Yep. He is personally responsible for becoming a father.


Nope. It is the mother's whim that determines whether or not he will be a father.


My ex just up and decided she wanted out. Would not discuss anything about reconciliation or saving the marriage. So, divorce. Instant child support payment for me. Was told by my lawyer that Texas is so overwhelmingly in favor of the mother no matter what that it would be next to impossible to get full custody and that I'd be paying child support regardless.

So, women....if you wanna lay down and get bred every couple of years so you dont have to get a real job, the state of Texas makes it really easy for you.

I have 2 co-workers that were cheated on by their wife and both ended up getting screwed.

The first wasn't father to the kids. He had adopted her kids from a previous relationship. She was screwing his best friend and he found out because her kids told him what was going on. She took the house and his hot rod in addition to having to pay child support when she got custody of the kids that weren't biologically his.

Second was the father. Wife was running off on "business trips" and screwing her boyfriend on co-worker's dime. She took the house, his car and half of the SWA points he had accrued through work in addition to child support when she got custody because he travels too much.
He adopted the kids. They are his.
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2:01p, 7/26/17
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I get that but it still sucks. Unless the mother is a drug addict, etc... there is no way he gets custody of those adopted kids.
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In reply to Tanya 93 • 2:05p, 7/26/17
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Tanya 93 said:
chjoak said:
superunknown said:
GeorgiaAg85 said:
Tanya 93 said:
GeorgiaAg85 said:
Tanya 93 said:
GeorgiaAg85 said:
Abolish child support. This problem disappears.

It might even help in the area of unwed mothers(I'm using this term loosely). If the woman has to foot the entire bill if the father(again, term used loosely) doesn't want to support the child, I'll bet the instances of "oops, I forgot to take my bc. Now give me $1000 a month for 18 years to pay for my salon tri... er, the child."
No.


I guess it was a crazy idea. Personal responsibility isn't cool anymore. Oh well, I tried.
Yep. He is personally responsible for becoming a father.


Nope. It is the mother's whim that determines whether or not he will be a father.


My ex just up and decided she wanted out. Would not discuss anything about reconciliation or saving the marriage. So, divorce. Instant child support payment for me. Was told by my lawyer that Texas is so overwhelmingly in favor of the mother no matter what that it would be next to impossible to get full custody and that I'd be paying child support regardless.

So, women....if you wanna lay down and get bred every couple of years so you dont have to get a real job, the state of Texas makes it really easy for you.

I have 2 co-workers that were cheated on by their wife and both ended up getting screwed.

The first wasn't father to the kids. He had adopted her kids from a previous relationship. She was screwing his best friend and he found out because her kids told him what was going on. She took the house and his hot rod in addition to having to pay child support when she got custody of the kids that weren't biologically his.

Second was the father. Wife was running off on "business trips" and screwing her boyfriend on co-worker's dime. She took the house, his car and half of the SWA points he had accrued through work in addition to child support when she got custody because he travels too much.
He adopted the kids. They are his.


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Holy crap this guy is hilarious.
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4:20p, 7/26/17
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So does this mean I have to take 9 billion DNA tests to prove I'm not anyone's father?
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In reply to TexasRebel • 4:25p, 7/26/17
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So does this mean I have to take 9 billion DNA tests to prove I'm not anyone's father?


Just gonna lob that one in there?
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In reply to titanmaster_race • 5:26p, 7/26/17
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Well... if we're on the hook for child support until we prove we aren't the father... Doesn't every male owe child support for everyone ever born?
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