I'm just saying to think about the world that she will grow up in. Her first interaction with almost everyone she meets will be digital, not face-to-face. People will assume someone named Dylan and ESPECIALLY Charlie will be a man.
Same goes for creative/cutsie spellings for names. I have a cousin named Abbee. The first thing she has to do every time she meets anyone is explain how to spell her name. How many times in her life will she have that conversation. Frustrating.