Vaccination questions (on the fence)

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dubi said:

If you could go back in time, would you get the vaccine?
If my family friend who almost died from severe covid pneumonia and spent several weeks in ICU and over a month total in the hospital had it to do all over again, not sure he'd get vaccinated again. I would never ask him, but would be interesting to get his thoughts. Maybe the assumption is that it would have been worse had he not been vaxxed. He doesn't even look like the same person.

And yes, I know this type of case is more the exception, but since we only hear about the worst cases on here and so many seem to think the vaccine is near infallible, figured I'd chime in as well.
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You are overweight which is a risk factor for a bad outcome, get the vaccine.
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Why was my post asking why we only validate data pertaining to vaccine efficacy and not validating the overall risk data when making a decision deleted?

[Your post was in a chain of replies that was automatically removed when a post above it was deactivated. That's what auto clean up means. It wasn't singled out for removal. When a response starts a derail, you will sometimes see a lot of subsequent posts automatically deleted without being reviewed--Staff]
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dubi said:

If you could go back in time, would you get the vaccine?


With all the BS that this has put myself and my family through over the past month, I would say yes. Hell, even my wife went and got her first shot due to what happened to me.
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KidDoc said:

You are overweight which is a risk factor for a bad outcome, get the vaccine.



Defined as BMI >25 ?
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JP76 said:

KidDoc said:

You are overweight which is a risk factor for a bad outcome, get the vaccine.



Defined as BMI >25 ?
Defined as screenshot your biometric screening and bloodwork results on here, and see if dad bod is really as healthy as people think it is.
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bigtruckguy3500 said:

Almost every doctor in the country has not only gotten the vaccine for themselves, but rushed to get it for their family. Many I know are waiting for approval to get it for their kids (this includes pediatricians, pediatric emergency medicine docs, and a host of other specialists). If just about every medical professional in the country thinks it is safe and effective for themselves and their family, chances are you're not taking any undue risk by getting the vaccine - especially when weighed against the very real possibility of a long term side effect from the actual virus.
Ditto. I am an aerospace engineer. I realize that the pros are the people who really know what they're talking about. And their actions speak louder than words.

100% of the physicians my wife works with got the vaccine. 100% of their spouses and children who can got the vaccine. 100% of their younger children will get the vaccine ASAP after it is approved.

As stated above, consider the Moderna vaccine as it seems to have the best resistance to the variants.
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dubi said:

I'll say you should do it for your 3 year old. D is kicking ass and apparently healthy folks are running the risk of hospitalization and long term effects of Covid.


This is exactly what I was going to say.

My wife in I are in the same exact boat as OP. Early 30s, very rarely get sick, healthy, good weight, etc. Have a 3 and 4 year old at home.

If I didn't have kids depending on me it would be a completely different decision but I'm not about to put that burden on someone else if I get really sick or heaven forbid pass away from covid (when a vaccine is readily available.

Also the thought of my children growing up fatherless because I passed on a safe and effective vaccine makes me sick to my stomach.

I also dropped 40 pounds since covid started and got in much better shape to improve my outcome, prior to the vaccine being available
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For every near-death anecdote there are tons of lesser cases. My Covid experience was a week-long headache & some lesser symptoms.

My personal cut off: child bearing. If your body is still going to impact the makeup of another human - being a guinea pig has additional considerations.

I took my household down the natural immunity pathway and we fell within the statistical expectation.

I'll parrot the antibody test as a first step. If you've got it: easy day. If you don't: you're in the exact same spot you're in right now.
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JP76 said:

KidDoc said:

You are overweight which is a risk factor for a bad outcome, get the vaccine.



Defined as BMI >25 ?
Correct.
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Get Off My Lawn said:

For every near-death anecdote there are tons of lesser cases. My Covid experience was a week-long headache & some lesser symptoms.
My post stating this was deleted. For every bad case you hear about, there are literally thousands of cases that are mild or where the person is sick for a few days and then back to feeling normal. I think the medical community is a bit jaded because they see it at it's worst and are unable disconnect work from reality, where majority of people are fine.
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wbt5845 said:

bigtruckguy3500 said:

Almost every doctor in the country has not only gotten the vaccine for themselves, but rushed to get it for their family. Many I know are waiting for approval to get it for their kids (this includes pediatricians, pediatric emergency medicine docs, and a host of other specialists). If just about every medical professional in the country thinks it is safe and effective for themselves and their family, chances are you're not taking any undue risk by getting the vaccine - especially when weighed against the very real possibility of a long term side effect from the actual virus.
Ditto. I am an aerospace engineer. I realize that the pros are the people who really know what they're talking about. And their actions speak louder than words.

100% of the physicians my wife works with got the vaccine. 100% of their spouses and children who can got the vaccine. 100% of their younger children will get the vaccine ASAP after it is approved.

As stated above, consider the Moderna vaccine as it seems to have the best resistance to the variants.

What is the basis? Is it because they think their kids are at risk or do they believe that if 100% of people are vaccinated that COVID goes away?

I just have yet to see in 1.5 years any real risk for the normal, healthy kid. Seems like medicating just to medicate but curious to hear a physicians reason for giving their young kids (under 11) the jab
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planoaggie123 said:

wbt5845 said:

bigtruckguy3500 said:

Almost every doctor in the country has not only gotten the vaccine for themselves, but rushed to get it for their family. Many I know are waiting for approval to get it for their kids (this includes pediatricians, pediatric emergency medicine docs, and a host of other specialists). If just about every medical professional in the country thinks it is safe and effective for themselves and their family, chances are you're not taking any undue risk by getting the vaccine - especially when weighed against the very real possibility of a long term side effect from the actual virus.
Ditto. I am an aerospace engineer. I realize that the pros are the people who really know what they're talking about. And their actions speak louder than words.

100% of the physicians my wife works with got the vaccine. 100% of their spouses and children who can got the vaccine. 100% of their younger children will get the vaccine ASAP after it is approved.

As stated above, consider the Moderna vaccine as it seems to have the best resistance to the variants.

What is the basis? Is it because they think their kids are at risk or do they believe that if 100% of people are vaccinated that COVID goes away?

I just have yet to see in 1.5 years any real risk for the normal, healthy kid. Seems like medicating just to medicate but curious to hear a physicians reason for giving their young kids (under 11) the jab

I really don't know. I'm just relating what the doctors say.
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wbt5845 said:

planoaggie123 said:

wbt5845 said:


Ditto. I am an aerospace engineer. I realize that the pros are the people who really know what they're talking about. And their actions speak louder than words.

100% of the physicians my wife works with got the vaccine. 100% of their spouses and children who can got the vaccine. 100% of their younger children will get the vaccine ASAP after it is approved.

As stated above, consider the Moderna vaccine as it seems to have the best resistance to the variants.

What is the basis? Is it because they think their kids are at risk or do they believe that if 100% of people are vaccinated that COVID goes away?

I just have yet to see in 1.5 years any real risk for the normal, healthy kid. Seems like medicating just to medicate but curious to hear a physicians reason for giving their young kids (under 11) the jab

I really don't know. I'm just relating what the doctors say.

Fair. Was just curious if you heard more details.
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AgsMyDude said:

dubi said:

I'll say you should do it for your 3 year old. D is kicking ass and apparently healthy folks are running the risk of hospitalization and long term effects of Covid.


This is exactly what I was going to say.

My wife in I are in the same exact boat as OP. Early 30s, very rarely get sick, healthy, good weight, etc. Have a 3 and 4 year old at home.

If I didn't have kids depending on me it would be a completely different decision but I'm not about to put that burden on someone else if I get really sick or heaven forbid pass away from covid (when a vaccine is readily available.

Also the thought of my children growing up fatherless because I passed on a safe and effective vaccine makes me sick to my stomach.

I also dropped 40 pounds since covid started and got in much better shape to improve my outcome, prior to the vaccine being available
sorry, but I don't see how adults getting these vaccines protect their children from a variant that's leaking around them like a sieve, and also doesn't statistically pose a threat to children in the first place...
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He means so he will be there for his child, not to protect the child from Covid.
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Statistically speaking, you're pretty safe either way so don't stress about it.

Educate yourself by reading data (not the covid/politics board of TexAgs)

Talk to a doctor you trust.

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I see people saying "do it for your 3 or 4 year old". Assuming people mean so that parents don't get sick, affecting their parenting? And not because 3-4 y/o children are at any risk with this virus statistically?

EDIT: OK I see that was cleared up and I missed it. I am constantly shocked at how many people think young children are at great risk from this virus...especially when other things like RSV etc. actually do hit them pretty hard.
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Get Off My Lawn said:

AgsMyDude said:

dubi said:

I'll say you should do it for your 3 year old. D is kicking ass and apparently healthy folks are running the risk of hospitalization and long term effects of Covid.


This is exactly what I was going to say.

My wife in I are in the same exact boat as OP. Early 30s, very rarely get sick, healthy, good weight, etc. Have a 3 and 4 year old at home.

If I didn't have kids depending on me it would be a completely different decision but I'm not about to put that burden on someone else if I get really sick or heaven forbid pass away from covid (when a vaccine is readily available.

Also the thought of my children growing up fatherless because I passed on a safe and effective vaccine makes me sick to my stomach.

I also dropped 40 pounds since covid started and got in much better shape to improve my outcome, prior to the vaccine being available
sorry, but I don't see how adults getting these vaccines protect their children from a variant that's leaking around them like a sieve, and also doesn't statistically pose a threat to children in the first place...


What you need to be sorry about is your lack of reading comprehension...
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Thanks. I missed that completely (despite it being there in black and white). I haven't rewired my brain to jump to Covid = Death, and apparently didn't follow.
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SB 43rd STREET OG said:

I see people saying "do it for your 3 or 4 year old". Assuming people mean so that parents don't get sick, affecting their parenting? And not because 3-4 y/o children are at any risk with this virus statistically?

EDIT: OK I see that was cleared up and I missed it. I am constantly shocked at how many people think young children are at great risk from this virus...especially when other things like RSV etc. actually do hit them pretty hard.


Yes it was more about reducing the chance of getting sick enough to need hospitalizations or home oxygen, etc. Odds are extremely low but I'd rather take my kids to Schlitterbahn or camping than hooked up to any oxygen tank.

Again, I know my chances are good so without the kids who depend on me my decision may have been different.

And they both got RSV this summer and it was brutal. My son was vomiting for several days from coughing up so hard.
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AgsMyDude said:

SB 43rd STREET OG said:

I see people saying "do it for your 3 or 4 year old". Assuming people mean so that parents don't get sick, affecting their parenting? And not because 3-4 y/o children are at any risk with this virus statistically?

EDIT: OK I see that was cleared up and I missed it. I am constantly shocked at how many people think young children are at great risk from this virus...especially when other things like RSV etc. actually do hit them pretty hard.


Yes it was more about reducing the chance of getting sick enough to need hospitalizations or home oxygen, etc. Odds are extremely low but I'd rather take my kids to Schlitterbahn or camping than hooked up to any oxygen tank.

Again, I know my chances are good so without the kids who depend on me my decision may have been different.

And they both got RSV this summer and it was brutal. My son was vomiting for several days from coughing up so hard.
I agree, sorry for the misunderstanding. And our pediatrician told us with our infant that you would MUCH rather them get Covid than RSV. I couldn't believe how many peoples' children were getting it this summer and the Dr. made it sound like what he was seeing was unprecedented. I wonder if summer camps after kids in general being overprotected from germs and illnesses for a year and a half had something to do with it?
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Jbob04 said:

I was originally against getting it too, thinking once I got the virus, it would be a mild case. With this current strain, I was wrong. Ended up with Covid pneumonia and spent a week in the hospital. I've been out for two weeks but probably have another couple months to fully heal my lungs. It's really hitting healthy people this year, unlike the original strain. I know the vaccine won't keep you from getting it but will most likely keep you out of the hospital. Don't gamble like I did OP, it isn't worth it.
This was my story, in fact Jbob and I were in the same hospital at the same time. Although I was in for longer. I was in from August 16-September 2. I would have much rather just gotten the vaccine.

On the other end of the spectrum, my 86-year-old father tested positive 2 weeks ago, and he's already over it. He was fully vaccinated.

It is certainly your choice, and I am still against mandates, but I am recommending the shot to everyone. COVID kicked my behind.
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Rex,
Glad to hear your Dad fully recovered without any complications. Great news!
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Husband and I are both in the health care field and both received the vaccine. No issues at all. We are in our 50's and both normal weight and active. I would rather "take a chance" with the vaccine rather than "take a chance" with covid.
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You're in you're 50's, which the CDC's data (I posted above) shows to be the age group where the risks are significantly higher than the age groups below it, and only gets worse with each older group, thus getting the vaccine would be recommended. OP is in his early 30's, and unless there is a significant health risk or severe obesity, statistically is at much less risk than you.
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I'm also 31, in your same boat. My wife is 30. We both got COVID. Was very mild. We are happy we never got vaccinated. Now we have the antibodies etc. However, we are very supportive of vaccinations where it makes sense.
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calbrown08 said:

I'm also 31, in your same boat. My wife is 30. We both got COVID. Was very mild. We are happy we never got vaccinated. Now we have the antibodies etc. However, we are very supportive of vaccinations where it makes sense.
This is what most people on this particular board seem to not be able to grasp. There is not a "one size fits all" solution to this (like most other things health related), and how the vaccine should be used is no different.
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100% agree, we followed the data. Our health and age put us at extremely low risk. So we decided against the risk of the vaccine. However, we pushed our parents to get vaccinated due to their health/age.
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So just my 2 cents as a parent who as done a lot of reading but has no medical credentials at all:
  • First, I would pose that you have perhaps created a false dichotomy in your decision. There is the concern about possible fertility issues, which, without getting into whether or not that is likely/possible, with how the vaccines work (creating the spike protein in your body in a controlled manner), logically, any side effect of concern from the shot, could likely be of equal or greater concern from the virus. So if the shot could cause fertility issues, why in your mind isn't the virus just as likely or more likely to cause that same issue?
  • Second, I just watched one of my daughter's classmates miss a chunk of the beginning of school because her dad was hospitalized and unconscious with covid pneumonia. He is similar to me (young 30s, low 20s BMI), and seemingly narrowly dodged not leaving the hospital. He is out now but with "significant lung damage". I realize this is emotional thinking, but I can't imagine not being there for my kids because i didn't do everything i could. While it is definitely emotional, the rational question is, do you actually believe the risk of infertility is high enough to justify the risk of being hospitalized or dying from the virus, because that is what the choice of not getting vaccinated would indicate. I'm not saying you should or should not feel that way because we all have to decide which risks we can tolerate and which ones we can't, just that its important to think through if you rationally believe the things your choices say you do.
  • Finally, and caveat this one includes my personal conclusions, I personally don't see a case being made for fertility issues being a real concern at this point. Sure, the data is short lived and so technically there could be lots of unknowns, but the problem here is that i have not seen any data presented showing it having happened, and we are far enough into testing and distribution that it should be emerging by now if it was there (at this point something like 36MM women ages 18-49 have been fully vaccinated). There have been stories about menstrual cycles being thrown off, but i haven't seen any data of lasting fertility problems, and a high fever or viral infection can also throw off a menstrual cycle for a bit, so that by itself really isn't necessarily a concern. And even in the absence of data, i haven't seen any credible sources present a theoretical mechanism for the vaccine leading to fertility problems.
Just my thoughts since you asked for input from others. hopefully its worth slightly more than you paid for it
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Your first point is why I I have a hard time taking most argument against taking the vaccine as anything more than "I don't wanna" but with more steps.

The biggest exception is anaphylactic shock.
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aTm2004 said:

calbrown08 said:

I'm also 31, in your same boat. My wife is 30. We both got COVID. Was very mild. We are happy we never got vaccinated. Now we have the antibodies etc. However, we are very supportive of vaccinations where it makes sense.
This is what most people on this particular board seem to not be able to grasp. There is not a "one size fits all" solution to this (like most other things health related), and how the vaccine should be used is no different.
I think this is a totally unfair characterization of "this particular board."

Most of us are not for mandates, and do believe in some level of natural immunity from infection.

It's true that most people here support vaccines, but most of us just want good information and good reasoning, not name calling and petty, childish attacks. The only time I see things turn ugly is when someone from f16 wants to come over here and "educate" us all with stuff that's been debunked long ago, but even then it's usually the f16 person who gets ugly first, not the ones who think vaccines work well and are worth getting.


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First, this is F84.

Second, a doctor on here told unvaccinated people not to go to the ER if they get sick. It doesn't get uglier than that.
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redcrayon said:

First, this is F84.

Second, a doctor on here told unvaccinated people not to go to the ER if they get sick. It doesn't get uglier than that.


First, thanks. I fixed it.

Second, My issue is painting an entire forum with one broad brush. I think, on politics as well as here, there are a variety of opinions and it is neither true nor helpful to blame them all for the opinions of a few.

I will add, though, that (not knowing the context) if that doctor said that, he or she was probably venting frustration at people who vilify doctors for "pushing poison" (I've seen people call the vaccine that) and felt like saying that if you don't trust doctors advice then why would you trust their care.

I also feel like I can cut some of these doctors that post here some slack. They're working very hard in very difficult situations. It's been hard. I can give them some grace if they vent some frustration on a message board once in a while.

I'm sure, though, that if that doctor actually was presented with an unvaccinated patient he or she would do all they could to save the person. It's just frustrating to see people sick and dying unnecessarily.


I guess what I'm saying is - when I read both forums I see a lot more unreasonable ugliness over there on Covid disagreement than over here, and politically I align with the majority of f16 on almost everything.
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GeographyAg said:

redcrayon said:

First, this is F84.

Second, a doctor on here told unvaccinated people not to go to the ER if they get sick. It doesn't get uglier than that.


First, thanks. I fixed it.

Second, My issue is painting an entire forum with one broad brush. I think, on politics as well as here, there are a variety of opinions and it is neither true nor helpful to blame them all for the opinions of a few.

I will add, though, that (not knowing the context) if that doctor said that, he or she was probably venting frustration at people who vilify doctors for "pushing poison" (I've seen people call the vaccine that) and felt like saying that if you don't trust doctors advice then why would you trust their care.

I also feel like I can cut some of these doctors that post here some slack. They're working very hard in very difficult situations. It's been hard. I can give them some grace if they vent some frustration on a message board once in a while.

I'm sure, though, that if that doctor actually was presented with an unvaccinated patient he or she would do all they could to save the person. It's just frustrating to see people sick and dying unnecessarily.


I guess what I'm saying is - when I read both forums I see a lot more unreasonable ugliness over there on Covid disagreement than over here, and politically I align with the majority of f16 on almost everything.
People are fed up with government overreach over this entire COVID situation. I can give them some grace if they vent some frustration on a message board once in a while.
 
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