Piling on because I don't feel like working...
Our house was built in '88. The kitchen is not open to the living/family room. I like that. I have a hard time keeping up the the family's dishes/crap and I don't want visitors to see it if I can avoid it.
When we build our retirement home in the Hill Country, I have a fantasy of what I call "not so open concept"
I love the idea of no formal dining room but a big farmhouse table that seats 10. And I want the dining table right in the kitchen area and a double-sided fireplace that separates that area from the living area. I was so happy to find this picture on Houzz.
<div><a href='
http://www.houzz.com/photos/60498611/Transitional-Farmhouse-farmhouse-dining-room-austin' target='_blank'><img src='

' alt='Transitional Farmhouse' border=0 width='320' height='214' nopin='nopin' /></a></div><div style='color:#444;'><small><a style="text-decoration:none;color:#444;" href="
http://www.houzz.com/pro/vanguard/vanguard-studio-inc" target="_blank">Photo by Vanguard Studio Inc.</a> - <a style="text-decoration:none;color:#444;" href="
http://www.houzz.com/photos/farmhouse/dining" target="_blank">Search farmhouse dining room design ideas</a></small></div>