rbtexan said:
DallasAg 94 said:
rbtexan said:
I can't wrap my head around a mindset in which the term "good character guys" wouldn't apply equally to a player's behavior in the team setting and also personal life. If either component is missing, the label doesn't apply. JMO
Say... Josh Hamilton?
Palmeiro was rumored to have been traded from the Cubs to the Rangers because he was sleeping with Ryne Sandberg's wife. The whole PED thing is another conversation in that same aspect.
Reality in America is that if your talent is good enough, your character doesn't matter.
I never would've said Hamilton or Palmeiro were "good character guys". Also, I wasn't criticizing or defending any player in particular, just making a comment on the phrase and the context used. I don't think you can separate clubhouse & personal life when you throw that out there. Again, JMO. No stones being thrown here.
My post wasn't meant to call you out. Sorry if it felt that way. I was half agreeing with you and half disagreeing.
By all accounts Hamilton was a good enough teammate that everyone was willing to forego celebrations to accommodate his sobriety. Winning matters, I suppose. But, to your point, in the end poor character off the field infected his relationship with Kinsler and others.
Palmeiro, if not for sleeping with a team mate's wife for the most part was considered a pretty good clubhouse and fan favorite. And then the whole PED thing.
To your point, if you make poor decisions in life, it is rarely limited to either work or home. Having said that, most men who engage in domestic violence and beat their wife... have compartmentalized that and their "work family" has no idea.