Lemme answer this way: Would you give your psycho ex: a chainsaw, lighter, gasoline, and a pistol... then invite them to spend the night in your million $ mansion, while you take a couple of sleeping pills and go upstairs for a nap?
"Democracy: 2 wolves and 1 sheep deciding one what to have for supper. Liberty: 2 wolves set on supper, and finding 1 well armed sheep."