Fair enough.
It's not justification (at least in my mind). We're not trying to figure out a way to go through the panhandle if the panhandle isn't passable. I'm trying to figure out when/if it's passable, and if not, what my other alternatives are. I don't mind driving the long way around to get there, I don't mind leaving later, I don't mind driving half speed, and I'm not going to be stupid with my wife and kids.
That's why I've come here asking lots of questions, seeking alternatives, and getting feedback from the guys that actually live in the area and can give feedback for likely time frames on traffic, highways and weather.
I'm leaning towards going up through OK and KS right now. It will add 3-4 hours to the trip but at this point in time, seems like the most passable option for tomorrow. I may wake up here in 6-7 hours, check again, and the story be different, but that's where things stand right now.