Dynastar, you hit on a lot of tough issues, trust me there's a lot of discussion that goes on regarding these issues.
Remember that many of the counties that now have limited does days, prior to antler restrictions, were buck only during the general season (unless you had doe permits). This was an effort to help the meat hunters, and work on population management in RMUs with upward trending doe herds. But still deal with the general "if it's brown it's down" mentality in parts of East Texas.
Trust me, we try the education angle, but the general level of misunderstanding (or straight up ignorance) is truely astounding some times. Several times in the last few years, I have gotten to be a witness to focus groups on various topics (deer management, quail, bears, steel shot, etc.). Usually the groups are 10-20 hunters with 10 to 45 years of hunting experience, and usually very set in their ways. I would say that usually when covering a species specific biology question, maybe 50% of the participants will get the questions right (Examples--what type of plants make up the majority of the deer's diet? How long do doves typically live in the wild if not harvested? How much does a typical bobcat weigh?) I love conducting outreach efforts (heck, I did 40+ presentations to 2000+ people last year), and will continue to do so, but it isn't the end all be all.---For example a typical landowner visit may literally be something to the following---"I have about 350 acres. I'm currently running 65 head of cattle. I'd like to see more quail, turkey and bigger deer. Oh, and 250 acres are currently in "improved pasture"". Okie dokie.