redag06 said:
FatZilla said:
Start by fixing the outrageous Custody and CS system that heavily favors the woman in the first place.
The state of Texas needs to come out of the 1950's, and wake up. Women/Mom's make money now and many times the same if not more than men. The non-custodial parent shouldn't have to pay the outrageous amounts the state feels they should, when their ex/baby mama is making the same if not more money.
Agreed!
When my wife got divorced, she was a young immigrant that barely spoke English and couldn't afford a lawyer. Her **** bag ex husband had his lawyer threaten to have her deported that day and never see her kids again if she didn't give him custody on the spot. She was a green card holder, so that was a lie, but it scared her into agreement.
Ever since then she's been fighting an uphill battle to get back her rights.
Three years after their divorce he wrecked his car going way over the speed limit and killed her son and left her daughter with a TBI that resulted in mental deficiencies and partial paralysis. He had recently been fired for meth and his car was full of booze, then refused a blood test at the scene. A local Grand Jury let him off for Negligent Homicide due to a "lack of evidence". Evidence that was latter discovered in a product liability suit via the black box in the car, but it was too late and the DA wouldn't do anything.
Since he got off, his reckless behavior did virtually nothing for us in a Child Custody Modification suit. My wife got back to 50/50 custody, but he got to keep primary residency and she's had to pay him child support for the last decade. He's completely obsessed with keeping my stepdaughter away from my wife as some sort of sick punishment for ending their marriage. Never shown even a single bit of remorse for killing her son and maiming her daughter.
Now that my stepdaughter is 18, my wife still has to pay him child support, despite the fact that he's brainwashed my stepdaughter so thoroughly that she won't even call my wife or come visit us. The fact that he ruined her life has triggered my wife paying child support to him past the age of 18. It's the most backwards **** I've ever seen in my life and we're told the legal cards are stacked against us. We're back in a legal battle, but it's not looking good, might get rid of child support but that's it.
Also the whole child support thing is bull**** anyway, at least in many circumstances. For example, we provided my stepdaughter, food, shelter, a bed, paid her health insurance, bought her clothes, bought her school supplies, entertainment, etc. The only difference between what we provided her and what her father provided her, was that she spent more nights at his house, so she ate more there, but he enjoyed the luxury of her company much more than we did. We also paid her medical insurance, which he didn't. Why does he deserve $550 a month from my wife in that scenario? Also that piece of **** has worked for 9 months out of the last 11 years, while sitting on his ass collecting my stepdaughters disability and child support.
I'm so ****ing frustrated at the whole system!