We knew this... You cannot treat mental illness with lobotomies or transition surgery.
Thanks for the reply. It is certainly possible that there were a lot of signs with my nephew all along that I didn't see. That being said, his parents were also caught off guard by it. And without going into too many details, there were also other things that my nephew rejected at the same time that lead me to think that there is more to the story than just gender dysphoria.Ag_of_08 said:
It doesn't come from nowhere. YOU may not have seen it, especially if you're the kind that's doing the "I'm not playing along" thing, we did/do a very good job of hiding it from people we think will treat us poorly.
I hid it from my family for 22 years, I could have told you when I was much younger. I don't advocate for letting kids transition, but the reality is by 16 or 17, and with actually therapy, thought etc, you know...
And yes, a lot of younger trans people attempt suicide. It's rough knowing your parents and family are going to treat you poorly, if not out and out disown you, knowing your friends will probably walk away, listening to the preacher tell you the violent and wrathful God your forced to worship is going to condem you to hell, and listening to thousands of strangers that think they're not only entitled to voice their opinions about our lives, but legislate our existence based on their beliefs.
It's more prevalent in the US than any other country from what I've read.Kool said:Ag_of_08 said:
It doesn't come from nowhere. YOU may not have seen it, especially if you're the kind that's doing the "I'm not playing along" thing, we did/do a very good job of hiding it from people we think will treat us poorly.
I hid it from my family for 22 years, I could have told you when I was much younger. I don't advocate for letting kids transition, but the reality is by 16 or 17, and with actually therapy, thought etc, you know...
And yes, a lot of younger trans people attempt suicide. It's rough knowing your parents and family are going to treat you poorly, if not out and out disown you, knowing your friends will probably walk away, listening to the preacher tell you the violent and wrathful God your forced to worship is going to condem you to hell, and listening to thousands of strangers that think they're not only entitled to voice their opinions about our lives, but legislate our existence based on their beliefs.
One further question, if you don't mind: do you think that there were always huge numbers of kids out there who wanted to be transsexual but felt unsafe, or do you think that there is something else going on that is leading to the massive numbers of kids we now see as declaring themselves trans, nonbinary, whatever? It's very well documented that teenage females are extremely prone to fall victim to peer pressure, mass hysteria, call it what you will. Do you think this movement is a "fad" that will go away (if it does, there will be a lot who played into it, in my opinion, who will be scarred for a long time - metaphorically if not physically)?