Public Shaming of random people by women on social media

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New gym culture is absolutely trash…

Signed,

An apparent old yelling at clouds that works out regularly
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Women wearing thongs to the gym is a thing?
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frenchtoast said:

Women wearing thongs to the gym is a thing?


If you have seen how prevalent butt scrunch leggings have become, it's the next step women will use for additional attention. That woman in the booty shorts above is also not wearing a bra.



If women are willing to wear clothes like this for attention, it's a very short step to the other and clearly it's already started.

It's an arms race to wear as little as possible because this is pretty much how women get more and more followers on social media.
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fightingfarmer09 said:



Brett had a good video on this.


The level of narcissism is off the charts. This is a classic example of solipsism and main character syndrome. Social media has absolutely warped people's brains.
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If you hang enough money in front of them, you can give them as much attention as you care to. It's amazing how that works.
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I spent a lot of years working for a Swede mega corp. At new hire orientation we had a gal from Germany as the primary instructor. She was quite attractive and probably 35-40. This was 2011. Anyway, she got to the part about dress code in the office. She went thru guys first, pretty standard business casual stuff. Then she got to women's attire and she said that it was permissible for ladies to wear sleeveless blouses, to show "reasonable" amount of cleavage, and skirts that were 1-2" above the knee, as well as tight fitting clothes as long were not see through and still could be considered business casual at a minimum.

But here is the best part. She then told the class that if you are a women and you show cleavage, wear shorter skirts, etc, and you notice men (or women) looking at the parts of your body these clothes highlight - that's on you. Don't go complaining to HR. She said if a guy walks around the office with a red siren on his head, it will without question cause people to stare. Showing a lot of leg, breasts, or your backside will do the same and you can't expect the men not to look.

Maybe that is a european perspective, I don't know, but I thought it was a pretty cool take on things.
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Urban Ag said:

I spent a lot of years working for a Swede mega corp. At new hire orientation we had a gal from Germany as the primary instructor. She was quite attractive and probably 35-40. This was 2011. Anyway, she got to the part about dress code in the office. She went thru guys first, pretty standard business casual stuff. Then she got to women's attire and she said that it was permissible for ladies to wear sleeveless blouses, to show "reasonable" amount of cleavage, and skirts that were 1-2" above the knee, as well as tight fitting clothes as long were not see through and still could be considered business casual at a minimum.

But here is the best part. She then told the class that if you are a women and you show cleavage, wear shorter skirts, etc, and you notice men (or women) looking at the parts of your body these clothes highlight - that's on you. Don't go complaining to HR. She said if a guy walks around the office with a red siren on his head, it will without question cause people to stare. Showing a lot of leg, breasts, or your backside will do the same and you can't expect the men not to look.

Maybe that is a european perspective, I don't know, but I thought it was a pretty cool take on things.


She would 100% be fired for that nowadays. In fact she would probably be recorded and it would be posted on Tik Tok where they would claim she is **** shaming and supporting rape culture. That's how much it's all change in 10 years.
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For starters, the chick is wearing Sperry Top Siders, which leads me to believe she's def not serious about working out.
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I know some people wear shoes like converse when squatting, or even barefoot (gross) when doing legs. Your typical running shoes don't let you use your feet muscles, so going with a flat shoe is better. Not sure about top sides, but they seem pretty flat.
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Saw this on Matt Walsh's channel, he took them to task. They have been getting pretty big blowback from these stunts, as they should. Pure narcissism guised as some twisted victimhood.

Btw, the girl in the OP's video posts photos on an OF copy cat website.
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she's ugly.
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TyHolden said:

B-Rabbit said:

Apparently the girl had an onlyfans account... what a joke.
OMG, that's just horrible....what's the url???
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Rodney Ruxin said:

Saw this on Matt Walsh's channel, he took them to task. They have been getting pretty big blowback from these stunts, as they should. Pure narcissism guised as some twisted victimhood.

Btw, the girl in the OP's video posts photos on an OF copy cat website.


When Joey Swoll, the nicest gym bro in existence, calls you out for bad behavior, you know you've gone viral the bad way.

This is a level of narcissism I almost can't fathom.
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Here is another one of these. I really ****ing hate what social media is doing to people.
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Btw, this was another one that came up in the news. This girl acts even more pathetic. Hilarious that she was actually talking to someone who worked there, think they kicked her out. Good on the guy for putting her in her place.

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LOL. She literally setup the video hoping someone would look at her. Then she acted like a ****.
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Cromagnum said:

LOL. She literally setup the video hoping someone would look at her. Then she acted like a ****.


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hunter2012 said:

Gyms have always been about being seen while working out. I bet it's a Pareto distribution with about 10% of the patrons actually there to get fit. The rest are there to be seen or to gawk at others.


What gym do you go to?
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I can not remember, did the crazy matrix scale ever cover wokeness? That lady did put out a public service announcement to all men that she is not worth the price of dinner.
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fightingfarmer09 said:



Brett had a good video on this.
That was an absolute tear down!
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Nanomachines son said:



I'm not sure if anyone pays attention to social media much but this video from this woman went viral. She's working out in a gym in basically nothing and this guy, who is clearly just waiting on the squat rack, glances over a few times at the obviously crazy woman filming and muttering to herself and then helps her when she is struggling with plates.

She made a Tik Tok video about it and posted the video to shame the guy. He of course got doxxed by other hysterical women.

We live in an era where women wear nothing to the gym yet if a man looks at them, they are now claiming it's basically rape.



When professional bodybuilders and Olympia winners at that, who walked around on stage in their underwear, are claiming it's making them uncomfortable to work out in a public gym, you know it's bad.

The passive aggressiveness is completely out of control and there is very little any man can do about it because you have no idea if you're being filmed or not. **** like this is why I workout late at night when no one is there. I hate what social media has done to gyms, it's turned it into a ****show of cameras, tripods, and other bull*****
My gym isn't THAT bad, but there are a handful of usual suspects that basically try to look like they're about to walk onto the set of a gym themed porno. It is hard not to take a quick glance every now and then and I am not one to stare, but with some of them, yes, it is like they are constantly looking around to see if you or another guy is watching them. You basically have to just block these girls out and pretend they don't exist. It's weird, because my gym seems like mostly average joes and people serious about working out, and there's usually just one or two of these girls in there are a time, max. Women are becoming increasingly screwed up in this country. I guess men are too, in different ways.
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JW said:

Nothing worse than people hogging a squat rack, deeking around on their phones.
I am convinced that these are the same cohort who don't return shopping carts and don't care if they hold you up behind them while playing on their phones when the light turns green.

The nerve some of these ppl have is incredible.
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yup. social terrorists.
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Brittmoore Car Club said:

JW said:

Nothing worse than people hogging a squat rack, deeking around on their phones.
I am convinced that these are the same cohort who don't return shopping carts and don't care if they hold you up behind them while playing on their phones when the light turns green.

The nerve some of these ppl have is incredible.
You have just described almost anyone under the age of 30. In the gym, it is way worse...

People sitting around on equipment they're not even using but essentially blocking people from using (yes - you can ask them to move but not everyone in the gym feels comfortable doing so)
Standing directly in high traffic corridors with zero regard for anyone else
Blocking sinks in the bathroom for their tiktok gym pump photo (this seriously happens)
Using Curl Bars or foam rollers as their selfie tripod as they proceed to do some meaningless or incorrect form exercise for their Instagram followers
Very rarely put their weights back after using them and act like you just asked for a pound of flesh if you ask them to re-rack their weight

Everyone is so caught up with themselves they are completely oblivious other people exist around them...
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The best thing you can do is be an actor in their videos and pictures. Start making faces. Start doing weird stuff. Ruin their content.
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What are butt scrunch leggings?

My last gym was about 80% elderly so this kind of thing was not an issue. Worst thing you had to worry about were the elderly men who were there to flirt with the other old ladies and they all enjoyed it.
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nomad2007 said:

Poor guy kept glancing over probably because she couldn't seem to figure out what the **** to do and he was thinking, "Ah **** this lady gonna hurt herself trying that wrong"
What was she doing? Pelvic thrusts at the squat rack? WTF exercise is that?
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Never leer directly at women in the gym. That's what the mirrors are for.
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Hip Thrusts. It's an effective exercise to grow glutes and is more addictive to girls than a pumpkin spice latte
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ttha_aggie_09 said:

Brittmoore Car Club said:

JW said:

Nothing worse than people hogging a squat rack, deeking around on their phones.
I am convinced that these are the same cohort who don't return shopping carts and don't care if they hold you up behind them while playing on their phones when the light turns green.

The nerve some of these ppl have is incredible.
You have just described almost anyone under the age of 30. In the gym, it is way worse...

People sitting around on equipment they're not even using but essentially blocking people from using (yes - you can ask them to move but not everyone in the gym feels comfortable doing so)
Standing directly in high traffic corridors with zero regard for anyone else
Blocking sinks in the bathroom for their tiktok gym pump photo (this seriously happens)
Using Curl Bars or foam rollers as their selfie tripod as they proceed to do some meaningless or incorrect form exercise for their Instagram followers
Very rarely put their weights back after using them and act like you just asked for a pound of flesh if you ask them to re-rack their weight

Everyone is so caught up with themselves they are completely oblivious other people exist around them...
I have certain pet peeves about gym behavior. My personal favorite is people hogging two pieces of equipment at once, leaving a towel behind on the one they are not using to "reserve" it. I used to be extremely passive/aggressive about this and would eagerly brush their towel to the floor. Now I just go use another piece of equipment and come back later to see if they are gone. I like to mix up the order I use equipment anyway.

And I realize I am showing my age here. I understand in most gym etiquette this is considered acceptable, and I should ask to "work in". But given the time of setting up the equipment and wiping it down, I like to get on it, do my reps, and then move on to the next.
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I don't really get the big deal here. If I was at one of these gyms, I would look at whoever the **** I wanted to. In fact, I'd look these chicks right in the eye, do an obvious up-and-down to check them out, then look them right in the eye again. Who cares if they post a video about it online? I don't even have social media other than TexAgs because I'm not mentally ill. They can put whatever they want online. If they actually figure out who I am and "dox" me, the only result would be a lot of high fives and good laughs with my law partners. Never cower to these narcissistic ****ing lunatics. Fight against them tooth and nail, and make them so uncomfortable that they shut the **** up and stop. That's the only solution here.
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Urban Ag said:

I spent a lot of years working for a Swede mega corp. At new hire orientation we had a gal from Germany as the primary instructor. She was quite attractive and probably 35-40. This was 2011. Anyway, she got to the part about dress code in the office. She went thru guys first, pretty standard business casual stuff. Then she got to women's attire and she said that it was permissible for ladies to wear sleeveless blouses, to show "reasonable" amount of cleavage, and skirts that were 1-2" above the knee, as well as tight fitting clothes as long were not see through and still could be considered business casual at a minimum.

But here is the best part. She then told the class that if you are a women and you show cleavage, wear shorter skirts, etc, and you notice men (or women) looking at the parts of your body these clothes highlight - that's on you. Don't go complaining to HR. She said if a guy walks around the office with a red siren on his head, it will without question cause people to stare. Showing a lot of leg, breasts, or your backside will do the same and you can't expect the men not to look.

Maybe that is a european perspective, I don't know, but I thought it was a pretty cool take on things.
The world would be a much better place if all women were required to hear this woman explain this simple logic and common sense. If you don't want to be seen sexually then don't dress sexually. If you don't care that people view you sexually than do as you will (with some limits).

I have no issue with female empowerment until it becomes narcissism and entitlement. Every action has consequences both positive and negative and we have so many women today being told that they can do anything and say anything and dress any way they want and face no consequences. If they get consequences they dislike it is not their fault. It's not only ridiculous it is a recipe for disaster and unhappiness.

If you want to wear revealing clothing that's fine but understand it will garner attention. You DO have the right to bodily autonomy. Polite society also gives you the expectation that men who interact with you should temper their natural reactions to this and not invade your personal space or harass you. Still when you wear revealing clothing you are risking that happening and it was YOUR choice to take that risk so just deal with it. I'd pop my sons upside the head for being disrespectful to a woman but if I had a daughter I would also make sure she understands that it cuts both ways. If you don't want attention it's easy enough to wear clothing that is still cute but not emphasizing your sexuality. In terms of the gym if it really bothers you there are female gyms you can go to. You don't have a right to tell men how to think or feel though and the world doesn't revolve around you.

Something else I have noticed about most women who are overtly sexual in their clothing, they typically have Daddy issues and are almost always insecure. Lots of people talk about how lack of strong fathers affects young men but it also affects women.
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When I see women dressed provocatively at the gym, I usually assume they are looking for attention. Just not from me.
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Rapier108 said:

Women want to be looked at, but only by a guy who they believe is worthy to do so, so they dress this way to get the attention.

However, if you are not the kind of guy they want looking at them, then be prepared for a full scale nuclear strike.
Hot women show off more for other women than men.

My wife says women with great body's have zero shame in the locker room at her gym. The rest of them have towels wrapped around them and if coming out of the shower change behind a screen or even in the bathroom area where there are doors.

When a hot girl comes into a bar with any guy, that guy, regardless of how attractive his may be, or who it is, will suddenly the most desirable man in the room.
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well said
 
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