Ok, ONLY because this post was already bumped up to the top of the board…I thought of your post today when reading Romans 9…
Romans 9:22-24 sounds like Paul is saying…
"'If it sounds like God has created some people to be saved into eternal glory, but has also created others to be condemned and eternal damn nation, what of it?' What He says instead is that we should reconsider what we think regarding the greatest good. We are humanists, so we consider the highest well-being of the most humans to constitute the highest good, above, even the glory of God's justice, wrath, and power. But God is a theist! And He thinks that the highest good is the fullest display of His own glory. So the question is, who is right? The theist or the humanist? God or man? Paul does not even bother to elaborate the answer. Paul flatly states that for the sake of the display of 'his wrath and to make known his power,' God, 'prepared' certain people for destruction (Rom 9:22). He also 'endured with much patience' their willful unbelief and sin, all while showering them with blessings in this wonderful world He made for us. But through their rebellion and subsequent judgment, God ordained that the glories of the perfect perfection of His power, justice, holiness, and wrath would be displayed forever. Meanwhile, God prepared others - 'even us who whom he has called, not from the Jews only but also from the Gentiles' - that is, those who believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and are saved, 'in order to make known the riches of his glory for vessels of mercy, which is prepared beforehand for glory' (Rom 9:23). What does this mean? It means that God ordains the condemnation of the reprobate, not only to show forth His justice and wrath, but also to display His mercy and grace to us who equally deserve hell but receive salvation instead. Were no one ever condemned - were there no display of God's judgment and wrath - there would be no knowledge of the glories of God's grace. In that case, the true God would be unknown to His creatures, and His purpose in creation - to display the fullness of His glory - would be unrealized. Having failed in this purpose, God would no longer be God. For this reason, God's decree of reprobation is necessary."- Richard D Phillips.
(Resist the urge to come back with a comment against Calvinists)