Actually, I think that goes too far. I don't think we can be responsible for other people's reactions, only for our own actions and intentions. Because even the standard you set here is no guarantee that it won't be taken badly. As we've seen, people have baggage with stuff like this. Most people are pretty sure they're fine and don't need help.
All I personally can do is try to be humble and gentle. St Seraphim of Sarov captured this perfectly:
All I personally can do is try to be humble and gentle. St Seraphim of Sarov captured this perfectly:
But even then! Even that doesn't prevent people from becoming upset. This kind of joy and peace can even provoke. I mean, the whole thing with what derm said is kind of a tiny example, no?Quote:
You cannot be too gentle, too kind. Shun even to appear harsh in your treatment of each other. Joy, radiant joy, streams from the face of one who gives and kindles joy in the heart of one who receives. All condemnation is from the devil. Never condemn each other, not even those whom you catch committing an evil deed. We condemn others only because we shun knowing ourselves. When we gaze at our own failings, we see such a morass of filth that nothing in another can equal it. That is why we turn away, and make much of the faults of others. Keep away from the spilling of speech. Instead of condemning others, strive to reach inner peace. Keep silent, refrain from judgement.