Great, so you bring up "if you pray for anything that is outside of God's will". This is perfect? What is God's will for us?
God wants all men to be saved and come to knowledge of the truth, i.e., Him. (1 Tim 2)
God wants us to be sanctified (1 Thess 4)
God wants us to give thanks in all circumstances. (1 Thess 5)
God wants us to deny ourselves and take up our cross
daily to follow Him (Luke 9)
God wants us to act justly and love mercy, walk humbly with Him (Micah 6)
God wants us to have a hope and a future. What is a future to the Eternal One? (Jeremiah 29)
God wants everyone to come to repentance (1 Peter 3)
God wants to work in us what is pleasing to Him (Hebrews 13)
God's will for us, what pleases Him, is not that we are comfortable or wealthy, or even happy - but joyful, in union with Him, that we achieve what we are called.
Hebrews 10:36 says that if we persevere we may receive what was promised. Luke 21:19 says
"By your patient endurance, you will gain your souls." Romans 2:7 says "To those who by perseverance in doing good seek glory, honor, and immortality, He will give eternal life."
Therefore, Romans 12 says "Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, persistent in prayer."
God's will is simple: for all of us to be saved.
We are here temporarily - we are foreigners, sojourners.
As for temporal needs, we have Christ's words as explicit guidance:
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Do not seek what you will eat and what you will drink, and do not keep worrying. For all these things the nations of the world eagerly seek; but your Father knows that you need these things. But seek His kingdom, and these things will be added to you. Do not be afraid, little flock, for your Father has chosen gladly to give you the kingdom.
Sell your possessions and give to charity; make yourselves money belts which do not wear out, an unfailing treasure in heaven, where no thief comes near nor moth destroys. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.
The man who asked for and was granted wisdom said meaningless, it is all meaningless.
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The wise teacher says Do not be hasty in word or impulsive in thought to bring up a matter in the presence of God. For God is in heaven and you are on the earth; therefore let your words be few.
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He who loves money will not be satisfied with money, nor he who loves abundance with its income. This too is vanity. When good things increase, those who consume them increase. So what is the advantage to their owners except to look on? The sleep of the working man is pleasant, whether he eats little or much; but the full stomach of the rich man does not allow him to sleep.
There is a grievous evil which I have seen under the sun: riches being hoarded by their owner to his hurt. When those riches were lost through a bad investment and he had fathered a son, then there was nothing to support him. As he had come naked from his mother's womb, so will he return as he came. He will take nothing from the fruit of his labor that he can carry in his hand.
St John teaches us:
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Do not love the world nor the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh and the lust of the eyes and the boastful pride of life, is not from the Father, but is from the world. The world is passing away, and also its lusts; but the one who does the will of God lives forever.
This is the promise which He Himself made to us: eternal life.
Can God use evil for Good? Of course. And death, too - yes, even famine. And infertility, and fertility. It is all to His glory, and who are you equate temporal niceties or their absence with a just and loving God? Be careful - by doing so you presume to judge Him and His providence, or as bad, to judge His servants.