Sq16Aggie2006 said:
Aggrad08 said:
The real impact has been described above. Actual marriages which provided actual benefits to society, have had their institutional definition expanded to include other marriages which do not offer these same benefits; and cannot by design offer these same benefits. You've actually lead me to change my argument and confirm that society as a whole has been harmed; and not just people with traditional marriages.
This is actually a reasoned approach.
The reality is that children that are raised by both their biological parents have better life outcomes than those that are not. And, marriage, being a lifelong commitment to a person who is going to change and develop and grow, is hard, sometimes harder than others. We should be celebrating those couples who choose to stay together and raise productive kids as the heros that they are.
However, as a society, we have chosen to give preference to the celebration of individualism, and celebrate the fact that people who are not really in a place to do the above are great people, too. We have emphasized that to the extent that we want to say that homosexual marriages are just as important, just as great, as traditional heterosexual marriages that focus on the sanctity of the nuclear family.
Honestly, it is my opinion that this choice has hurt us. I would prefer that we celebrate the responsibility of adults to commit to a nuclear family over the individual right for adults to choose not to do this.
There is nothing irrational, or hateful, or mean spirited or ugly about this position. I'm not telling you to stop being gay. I just value the nuclear family, and the good that the sanctity of this brings to society, a lot more than you.